my parents assume i am depressed by the kind of music i listen to and dressing in all black??..
I am not depressed or else i would have cut my wrists and other parts of my body which i don't.. the kind of music i listen to is rock, hard roc, metal heavey metal. usually listen to metallica, likin park, and godsmack and my chemical romance.
2006-07-31 06:18:29 · 9 answers · asked by Gothic Girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also i don't smile alot(like what i luv joel madden said) unless i am extremly happy or there's something really funny. if i was depressed i wouldn't be doing that...
2006-07-31 06:28:22 · update #1
sometimes when i am picking out clothes i go straight to black clothing. i am actracted to that color
2006-07-31 09:10:31 · update #2
yeah my mom accused me of being depressed and stuff and i know i ain't even if i don't smile 24/7 i know i ain't depressed she thought it was cuz my music i listen to. and dude i don't cut either. Good For us! LOL! yeah well i listent to linkin park,some old metallica music,some Godsmack,and tons of MCR!!!! i guess i am starting to dress a little differently from what i used to dress. but i don't think my parents should worry about me and what style i am into. im a good kid. and so i totally understand where you are coming from. you prolly already knew i understood where you were comming from though! LOL! just know there is someone out there who has/had a similar situation before/now. (me) good luck!!!
2006-07-31 06:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i have the same problem, only i am depressed alot, but it's not my music, it's kind of a mixture of money problems, and i feel ugly,.... sincemy mom already knows i'm depressed, and took my music away from me, which totally sucks, so now i have to act all hapy all the time when i'm not, just to get my music back, and i'm not changing my style, it's my legacy, people always assume i'm gothic, but really, i'm just a less-extreem (no offence to you cuz ur name is Gothic Girl,) but an Emo, which sometimes i just let people stereotype me, but i guess i have the symptoms of one,.... but i know how your parents are, it's totally normal, ( most would say it's a phase in life when your attracted to black, but i think it's juat a style that's getting popular,... to me ,that is) ☺
2006-07-31 09:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♫♥Ashlyn♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid my parents think the same thing about me. i love rock cuz it's like the only music that actually has meaningful lyrics and i love the sound. i can tell my mom gets all worried cuz when we go shopping i automatically run over to whatever is black. i'm just attracted to that color. and i painted my nails black and she freaked kinda. lol. but i know what you mean about the smiling. why should you smile if it's just a fake smile and you don't have pure happiness behind it? i've always felt like "why smile just for the sake of smiling?" you know. most of the time i'm just contempt and have a straight face on. most of the time when i'm happy i just have a straight face on.
2006-07-31 08:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by gertie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just don't understand. If you changed your style resently or hardened your taste in music, that can concern parents. Just let them know you are fine and just like the clothes and the music. They will get over it if you give them time.
2006-07-31 06:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by zara01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents think the same exact thing...it annoys the hell out of me. my favorite color is black and sure...i like to listen to that type of music but they just assume that i am depressed. they wont even let me get my own medicine because they are afraid i will o.d. because im "depressed"
2006-07-31 18:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by bellamuert3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your life style is something they aren't used 2. Everyone has to be an indivual. Just do it in a safe way
2006-07-31 06:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not depresssed...tell them that punk is just a style.....and that ts not judged on how ur feel emotionaly
2006-07-31 06:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by ask_me_anything 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most punk people are
2006-07-31 06:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by stan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not depressed.....what do they no.....
2006-07-31 06:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋