Hi can any one tell me how to recover from the death of a friend, friend with whom u shared the bed together, ate together, etc.etc. i am totally lost. just tears are coming for god's sake pls help me.
2006-07-31 06:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need a long break... a vacation... I can't think of anything else...
If it gives you sympathy to tell you this, I've had the same sorrow before... But of course I wasn't sharing beds with him... but he was like my brother...
2006-07-31 06:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am deeply sorry for your loss, I know something of what you are going through because I have been there myself. There really is not anything that I or anyone else can say that will stop the pain you feel right now. All I can say is pray, and ask the lord to give you the strength to get through this hard time. And please know that it will get better, just give it a little time, that's all that can take away the pain. I'm sorry I will pray for you, best wishes and good luck.
2006-07-31 13:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. You should know it's alright to grieve. There's nothing wrong with that. Each person deals with these things differently. Trying to foget about it, joking around, wanting to be around people, wanting to be alone, crying all day. Anything is ok at a time like this. Maybe you need a hug. Is there anyone who could help you with that one?
Please contact me anytime if you feel like talking.
2006-07-31 13:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by onlyhuman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to recover from such a loss. Give your self time to work through the grief and loss. You may look into grief counseling.
I am very sorry to hear of your Friends death.
2006-07-31 13:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry! There really is no way to get over losing a friend but try to think that they are in a better place now and are happy. I'm really sorry for your loss and really hope things get better for you soon. If you ever want someone to talk to e-mail me Hot_Lazy_Chick444@yahoo.com My name is Michelle I'm female, 13, Blonde, And live in Fulton NY and will listen to any of your problems!! Good Luck!!
2006-07-31 13:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss. Grieving takes time, as does adjusting to being 'alone'. But you aren't alone. Reach out to your family and friends to help see you through this. You could also try grief counseling.
I recently lost my grama, and it helped me to write her letters. I keep a notebook of letters to her. It helps me feel better because I can get my feelings off my chest. It's a peaceful feeling.
2006-07-31 13:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass through your freind probaly want u to move on.My grandfather pass before I was born I didnt cry because I didnt feel anything because I never know him.But u and your freind was really close so it will pass.he'll follow u as a spirit to guild u throught it.
2006-07-31 13:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by ~Your Greek God:God Of Advice~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will tell you it won't be easy......in my area in the past 2 years there have been 9 of my friends killed, and my grandpa!! really there is no cure for death other than time and prayer......grab onto some of your other friends for help
2006-07-31 13:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋