Me and the gf just had a little arguement. We are very in love, no doubt about it. Im usually the type of guy that tries hard not to get her upset. She says that Im getting to her and doesnt know why. Im the kind of guy that goes out and buys her flowers often. Call her everyday just to tell her I love her. She usually doesnt want me to call just to tell her that. She says if I have nothing to talk about than I shouldnt just call her to say I love her and miss her, because she already knows I do (She's been out of town for 3 months and I trust her, so cheating isnt involved). We argue for a bit about her being not talkative and that she doesnt care to talk to me. I try so hard to tell her it hurts me, for her to say that i can't call her just to tell her I love her, because I do. Than she cried her hurt and I said, Honey I love you. She told me she cant say" I Love you"to me because i deserve better, and she doesnt deserve me because Im too good for her. Why say that when theres Luv
2006-07-31 05:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by Blazes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like she's either dealing with a guilty conscience, or that she likes the kind of guy who treats her poorly. I personally can't understand that, but I have seen it happen often enough. You need to ask her to specify what she meant by that particular comment, and you two need to have a talk, a long serious talk.
2006-07-31 05:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a women says you deserve better, she's got a guilty mind. She knows she's not the one for you and vice versa. Just listen to her or you will hurt more in the end.
2006-07-31 06:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by a.kranz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing bad in expressing ones feelings and emotions to a love one, in fact it give the needed assurance that you been loved by someone special to you and makes you happy.your gf is in love with someone else and wouldn't be happy to hurt you so she is looking for a way to either make you leave or reduce your love for her. The truth is she had bite more than he can shew.
2006-07-31 06:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by sankara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it but I dont think she really loves you and if anyone tells you you deserve better than them, listen.
2006-07-31 05:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the woman wants & needs change. A new romance.
2006-07-31 05:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋