2006-07-31 05:47:17 · 33 answers · asked by wee smithy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
send her to boot camp after she delivered the baby.
2006-07-31 06:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
feel very sad, its an awful situation for a 14 year old to be in-why is she even having sex??!!Shes got her whole life ahead of her and having a child totally changes everything/Having said that, now a baby is on the way she needs to get organised-I dont believe in abortion unless its a very extreme situation-why should the child suffer because the parent wasnt careful enough?
Maybe you could get her some baby parenting books from the library and get her to look into anntenatal classes.When she see's her midwife(she needs to go to her doctor who can do pregnancy test and refer her to the nearest hospital) he/she will give her all the information she needs-it might also be worth for her to see a councillor just so she can talk through whats happening-and you can give her supoort.
Shes going to need a friend now more than ever-lets hope the father sticks around too, having a baby is hard work and shes going to need to grow up very rapidly-it does take away your freedom and youth but is great if you manage to get it togther.Tell her I said good luck.
2006-08-01 00:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to talk to an adult. Preferably a parent, but that may not be feasible if she is afraid. The health department is an excellent place to start, or she may have a teacher, family member, pastor, sunday school teacher, family friend that she can confide in and maybe get help in telling her parents. The number on thing is medical care for her (and the baby especially if she is going to keep it).
2006-07-31 05:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.
WOW!! Your mate relaly need a lot of support. I know it's hard for her and she is proabably all over the place so you have to be there for her. Tell her to talk to her parents and boyfriend about her being pregnant and if she hasn't already then take her to the doctors to get it confirmed.
I really hope you both sort it out and i wish you all the best. If you need any help,advice anything at all dont hesitate to contact me.
Good luck x
2006-07-31 08:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by cheekymonkey192006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound really mean, but you need to dump her as a friend. Did she ask your advice before she started sleeping around and having unprotected sex? What did you say? Chances are she didn't discuss that issue with you. She needs to know that her behavior is unacceptable. Hanging around her and supporting her is only telling her that you think what she is doing is acceptable. Not to mention how kids will treat you for hanging around her. She is going to labeled as a sleaze, you hang out with her, and you'll have the same reputation. SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING WHEN SHE SPREAD HER LEGS. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HER. MOVE ON.
2006-07-31 06:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deja vu...all my cousins were 13 & 14 when they 1st got pregnant, it's such a shame! You'd think girls would be smart enough to carry condoms, but with what sex ed they get in school, that doesn't look realistic.
Be there for your friend, she'll need you one way or the other & insist she talk to an adult about this...good luck1 (:
2006-07-31 05:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by anglo_audiophile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen to a friend of mine too when I was a teenager. She's going to need you the most now, so do your best to be there for her as much as possible. Buy her some books or just take her to the library to shed some knowledge about what she'll be going through.
2006-07-31 05:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she tells her parents or if ur parents are more understanding u could ask them to have a word with her an go to her parents. but she needs adult help if she intends on having this baby she needs to start taking folic acid tabs. an book in witha hospital be there for her she needs u it can b very scary even 4 an adult never mind a 14 year old
2006-08-01 02:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Twiggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her whether she keeps the baby or not, its bloody hard work having kids, i'm 34 and mine are nearly 3, god only knows how hard it will be at 14! I know i cudnt have done it!
She needs to seriously consider her options .
Wish her luck from me and she is lucky to have such a caring friend xx
2006-07-31 05:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Splendid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her to think all her options through sensibly and to tell her parents and her doctor asap. As much as she feels she will be in trouble, it's nowhere near as bad as coping on her own not telling anyone. She will feel so much better once she has it off her chest and she will really need her parents at a time like this, they will still love her i'm sure.
2006-07-31 05:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be like oh my god this is real crazy but on the other hand u have really nothing to do but support her because she is ur friend and no matter what u r not going to stop being her friend because of that. that is her problem and not ur so u just need to be there 4 her 100 percent. do not let her get herself down.
2006-07-31 06:00:02 · answer #11 · answered by nemo62383 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋