This guy at the bar I work at tripped out Friday night. So his girlfriend is bi and she fooled around with another girl in the ladies room. Her BF found out about it and and damn near knocked the other chick out. I had him kicked out but not arrested. I talked to her later on and she knew the couple and had been cheating with his girl for a while. My openny she desereved to get hit in the face, But she was like Hello I'm a girl no man should do that. If your going to help somone cheat then you can't pick the consequeces. Do you think he was wrong, if it was a guy cheating with his girl he would have done the same. She was mad that I didn't call the cops. I figured it's humilating enough to have your girl cheat, so I just kicked him out to arrest him would have added insult to injury you know. What is your assesment of the situation?
2006-07-31 05:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah I am shocked Randy
2006-07-31 06:17:38 · update #1
I agree with you.
Yeah I know it shocked me too.
Just kidding.
2006-07-31 05:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋
It is wrong to cheat if you are in any relationship (with a girlfriend or boyfriend) that's not an open relationship. (And both people have to know it's open.) She should not have cheated on him. She could have always just broke up with the guy first, it doesn't matter who she cheated with. BUT the guy shouldn't hit the girl, there was no reason for that. You should never hit someone for something so dumb. He could have just left. He should have been mad at his unloyal girlfriend more anyways, not the other woman. If it was an unfair fight then you should have steped in to stop it or called the cops. You don't know the details and somebody could have really been hurt.
2006-07-31 13:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. There's a enough of a storm brewing in that relationship and having him arrested is nto worth the trouble. The whole point was to have him off the property and you accomplished that.
2006-07-31 12:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the best thing,you have good judgement. As far as hitting another person no matter what I feel it is totally wrong!!!
Man woman or child should not be assaulted (hit) for any reason.
Communicating is the better way. talking things out.
2006-07-31 12:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing and don't feel bad about how you did it. I think the girl needed a lesson to that choices need to be made not just avoided. Expecialy in such a situation.... Don't go to bed thinking about it it's not worth it!
2006-07-31 12:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My late mother always said, treat a woman like a lady, never hit one, BUT, if she's not acting like a lady, which that one wasn't, too bad, so sad.
Still, assault is a BAD thing.
I do think you were right, though.
2006-07-31 12:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by chuckufarley2a 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sin begets sin. May God Bless
2006-07-31 12:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did it right
2006-07-31 12:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad....but I think you kicking him out was fair enough.
2006-07-31 12:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant make head or tail of your question!
2006-07-31 12:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋