Ok, this is sorta complacated but I think maybe you can help. See one of my best freinds has a friend who I absolutly hate and she hates me back. I know your supposed to try and make peace but I tried and failed. Now my best friend who is friends with both of us doens't want us to fight but we want to fight each other (not physical although that would be nice but like word fight) Whenever I saw anything to this person I don't like she gets mad at my best friend and it drives me nuts! How can I get my best friend out of the middle? I've tried peace, threatening, arguing, everything and she still continuasly gets mad at my best friend. My besst friend is her friend, i don't know why she is b/c she is treated like crap, but she is and I can convince her not to be. What do I do? How do I get my friend out of the middle? How do I get revenge? should i just get my friend out and not get revenge? I need help.
2006-07-31 05:32:29 · 2 answers · asked by Shorty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i had the same problem i just sat my best friend and the girl i don't like down and i told them both how i feel and i then let the girl i don't like say how she feels then my best friend talk and we all fix are problems and now we are all best friend so good luck with your troubles.
2006-07-31 05:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 03:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋