2006-07-31 05:30:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you cant judge love it from the heart you gotta feel it this will let you know when trust me
2006-07-31 05:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to know yourselves and each other well; for instance; what if you were expecting or how well do you handle finances, how do you both discuss troublesome issues in the relationship; are both of you adult mature or childish. Are you both really ready for the after effects of marriage, after the dress is put away and the party is over and real life like work bills time for each other or lack there of sets in. There are so many things to look at before the final days. Are you both financially stable in case of life emergency or other financial trouble, a place to live a vehicle to drive etc. I could go on and on. Be sure things are not rushed at all.My husband and i dated for five years before we married. We never lived together until the day we got married. We have been married for 12 years.
2006-07-31 05:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've met people that get married after a month of knowing eachother. And they live happily ever after, while others wait three years and they end up divorced. It's all a matter of maturity level between the both of you. If the maturity level is not compatible, your marriage won't last even if you wait 30 years.
2006-07-31 05:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should know someone at least 2 years before agreeing to marry them. I know people will disagree. I think that you need to see them in all seasons and for a couple of years to start to get the true picture of who they are. You are making a lifetime commitment. If you plan on being together forever, what is another year.
2006-07-31 05:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a minor, then that decision would be solely up to your parents and the parents of the person you're marrying. If you are not a minor, one year is a good amount of time for an engagement. How long did you know each other before the year's engagement?
God bless you and your marriage!
2006-07-31 05:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you should wait until you both are sure you want to be together for the rest of your lives. The one year, 2 years, 3 months, however long that takes. It all depends on the individual.
2006-07-31 05:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well you know the person and how ready you are to give up the life you have for each other. Hubby and I got engaged after a year and married a year and a half after that but we were older and relatively secure in who we were and who we'd be together.
2006-07-31 05:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a moment is enough, and sometimes a life time is too short. depends somethimes may be 2 yrs but u both have been away from each other the whole time... so like that. but i think a year while u both are together as in meet each other every day and stuff is usually enough
2006-07-31 05:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a lot of things. I would advise anyone under 25 not to get married. It seems to me that it takes a good quarter century of living to get a handle on yourself let alone know what you want or need in someone else. Secondly, after two years of knowing someone you pretty much know what someone else is about. That's my advice.
2006-07-31 05:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given your maturity level (Q/A) I'd suggest that you wait another 10 years or so, otherwise I can guarantee a divorce within 2 years.
2006-07-31 05:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time you should wait is different for different people. If you both feel ready after a year then go for it.
2006-07-31 05:51:05 · answer #11 · answered by Lauren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋