I am invited to a birthday party at which my ex and crush will BOTH be at it is nether of theres birthday it is there friends party but they are both invited and so am I. I am sick and have cramps from my period (which I am on right now) and I don't want my ex or crush to see me like this. My mom is MAKING me go. My sister has a date at the mall the same day and the plan was for my mom to drop off my sis @ the mall and me and my cuz where going to go shop 2gether. How can I get my mom to let me go to the mall instead of the party. Or give me more excuses for my mom so I DON'T have to go to the party. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
2006-07-31 05:18:07 · 2 answers · asked by LA la 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if the party is for someone whose close to you...make plans with her/him after their party ....tell your mom you'll spend time with them after their party...just let you go to the mall with your cousin..for some family time!G/L ♥
2006-07-31 05:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big of a deal that you are going to the same party as your ex and your crush. In fact, you should embrace the fact that your crush will be there, you can spend more time with him, and your ex will see that you've moved on. Girl in 5 years from now this one party isn't going to make or break you unless you let it. Tell your Mom that you feel sick, and don't want to be a downer on the party, or tell your Mom the truth, that there are a couple of people that will be at the party that you aren't ready to and don't want to face right now. If you get dropped off at the party, and you don't want to be there, go find somewhere else to hangout till the end of it, and be back their conveniently when your Mom's there to pick you up....play hooky!
2006-07-31 12:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋