I saw my ex fiancé yesterday after a week had gone by that she decided that she wasn’t ready to get married, However, she was still wearing her engagement ring…Just on her other hand...Just seeing it makes me feel like it shouldn't be with her, it should be with me because that was my heart...Why would a woman wear it if she cut it off...
2006-07-31 05:12:20 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she just wants expensive things..one word: money?
2006-07-31 05:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am so sorry she broke your heart. I know you are hurting, by the way you wrote you question. She should have given the ring back to you, since she was the one who broke it off. If you broke things off then it's her's to keep, but you have every right to ask for it back. Her still wearing it has me confussed, and since I don't her or what she told you at the time of the break up, I am having to quess...1} she still cares but got scared 2} she just don't her true feelings and is trying to figure them out 3] it's a beautiful ring and she just wearing it with no thoughts of how it looks 4} she's trying to rub your nose in it
Sorry, I am not sure what to say..If she had any feelings at all, she would give the ring back to you..whether it was to hold it till she's really ready for a committment or if she knows that it wouldn't work out. I think you two still have some talking to do whether it works for the best, or if she still doesn't want to get married. My heart goes out to you, When you said that about "it should be with me" I hope she realizes what she is throwing away. Everyone gets scared, those cold feet, and this might make you a stronger couple if things are meant to be. But, honey, there is a world full of woman just waiting for a guy like you. I hope you find her, whether she's your ex or if it's some new woman that comes into your life... I pray that your heart mends soon... God bless us all.......
2006-07-31 05:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be right, but she's just going to think you're an a$$hole if you ask for the ring.
She obviously is an uncaring, insensitive little brat who did not think much of your gesture.
I say to heck with her, and it was money well spent to find out now, rather than later, that she's a jerk.
If she thinks so little of the ring, then you should let her think that it doesn't mean anything to you either. She is not going to learn a lesson if you ask to have it back, and explain to her why. Let it go. She is a cold fish and has low morals. You're better off without that. Be thankful it was only a ring, and not your house, your kids, child support, and alimony.
Now go live your life buddy! It was just a ring. It wasn't your heart.
I understand that it hurts now, but you deserve to give your heart to somebody who would give their heart to you.
2006-07-31 05:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B-Money is right! Since she broke off the engagement, she is supposed to return the ring. It is an engagement ring, not just any ring.If she doesn't want the man who bought the ring, then she shouldn't want the ring either. She is keeping it because it is a piece of diamond jewlery. Hopefully, this will tell you something about her. If you want the ring back, you have the right to it, not her. Sorry your heart is broken. An engagement ring is not a gift.
2006-07-31 05:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke off the engagement, she should have returned the ring. Have you tried asking her for it? If she refuses, then remind her that you gave the ring to her as a condition of an oral contract (which is basically what a proposal is) and she breeched that contract. Therefore you are entitled to get the ring back. You could probably even take it to small claims court if it really means that much to you.
2006-07-31 05:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke off the engagement, she should have given the ring back to you. She has no right keeping it. (If a man breaks off the engagement, she would keep the ring.)
Apparently she likes the ring and that's why she still wears it, but she doesn't like the idea of being married to you.
2006-07-31 05:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey boyy well It probly just became regular jewlery to her like someone already told you. If its nice and its a dimaond she will wear it. But LIke if it looks to much as a engagement ring why would she wear it right ? but talk to her and take it a way from her. that is what you should of done in the begining when she said she was not ready then you should of said ok well give me the ring back.
2006-07-31 05:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by yaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wears the ring because it is a diamond and most women love to show their jewlelry off,sorry but I don't think it has anything to do with her wanting you back. You do have the right as you have read from other people to ask for the ring back. that is totally up to you.Sorry it didn't work out for the two of you.
2006-07-31 08:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by teresa.hereford@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it was a gift, and she has the right to do whatever she wants with it.
Just a note - whoever told you you have a legal right to reclaim the ring is incorrect. I work in the legal field, I can assure you that the judge will agree the ring was a gift and she doesnt have to return it.
2006-07-31 05:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by mand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in the US?
If she cut off the engagement, you have a legal right to the ring.
2006-07-31 05:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its prob. a nice ring and thats why she is wearing it on her other hand! If you want it back, I would ask her for it! She is the one that st oped it all so she sould give it back and dont buy into the gift thing, its not a gift its a promise and its a symbol of your love a promise to get married to her so unless your the one breaking the promise she doesnt have any claim to it!
2006-07-31 05:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by connys1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋