2006-07-31 05:03:57 · 50 answers · asked by brite star 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you have to ask...I think you know the answer.
2006-07-31 05:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's hard to say. We would like to think that the bonds of friendship and marriage stay intact, but then it's always human nature that is the wild card. I would venture to say that if you put a boy mouse and a girl mouse in a room together then you should not complain about all of the little mice that follow.
Dare I mention the taboo question, "Can men and women work together for a long time and not get involved"? I think people have default programing that brings people together of opposite sex. It's a natual thing. That's not saying that people do infact "override" their default programming for the betterment of themselves, their mate, society etc... But that "sexual tension" could exist. So why place undue stress on your mate and best friend? Limit alone time exposure and be able to keep your mate, your friend and your marriage in their proper orbits.
2006-07-31 05:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be able to. If you dont feel secure enough in that chouce though. You need to reevaluate either your friend or your mate or both. If you cant trust them then those are not people you need to be around. It makes me happy to see when my best friend and husband spend time together. BUt since you are asking it makes me wonder why you are asking this question. All I can say is yes, you can. or at least you should.
2006-07-31 05:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more appropriate question is: Can you trust your mate around your best friend. Your mate SHOULD be CLOSER than your best friend.
It shouldn't matter if your best friend is flirting with your mate, because your mate is supposed to demonstrate the highest degree of loyalty.
If this is in question, then your relationship is in trouble!!!
2006-07-31 05:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If really I call him my best friend why not trust him around my mates?
2006-07-31 05:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... because nobody can be trusted 100 percent, for 100 percent of the time.
There will be times when your best friend and/or your mate will let you down, whether they mean to or not.
Sometimes, one may get mad at you, then turn to the other for support & before you know it, they may end up in each others arms... & you're left out in the cold.
2006-07-31 05:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
But you need to have trust with your mate. That is the most important thing. If you and your mate have complete trust in each other, then others don't matter at all.
2006-07-31 05:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by Imaginer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no . Depending on trust. If you really trust BOTH of them then i think it wshould be okay for all of you to be around together but if you are not comfortable with alll you guys around at the same time then no
2006-07-31 05:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by preetyinpink_amila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends
If they are really a best friend then yes, absolutely
but if you are only talking about your friend that you hate the least, then who knows.
it all comes down to the definitions of best friend and mate.
If you trust one or the other completly then yes, but if neither one of them are 100% then no
2006-07-31 05:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by sexydp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mate is really flirty around every boy she is near, apparently it is her 'flirty nature'. It's not hard to stop making sexual inuendoes out of everything for one minute.
Thank god that my boyfriend it trustworthy, he wold never go with her. When we were at school she was nicknames the school bike, because... everyone has had a ride.
2006-07-31 05:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-07-31 05:04:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋