Just curious, cuz some gay guys are so cute and we all wish they are not...but yeah. We rarely hear guys fall in love with lesbian girls. Why isn't that a two way street?
2006-07-31 05:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Susieq1118 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It can be, it's just what you hear. Have you ever seen the movie "Chasing Amy" with Ben Affleck? It deals with that. And many lesbians tend to hide more, more Earthy then flashy. But then again you see all different styles. Plus being bisexual I don't have that problem.
2006-07-31 05:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 11⤊ 1⤋
Because it is socially more acceptable to be a lesbian than a gay man (in the straight world).
Just like you don't hear about racially-mixed relationships as much as you did 10 years ago; it's more acceptable socially.
Straight men don't have as big of a problem with lesbians b/c they can understand the sexual attraction to a woman. They don't understand the sexual attraction to men.
2006-07-31 05:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it happens. But the whole world of lesbianism is less "out there" than the world of gay men. Gay men talk about their sexuality, in general, while in general, lesbian women tend to be more private about it all.
2006-07-31 05:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, because supposedly, a guy being with or watching 2 women has been made socially acceptable via the male dominated media of pronography. I can't even tell you how many times a str8 guy has said how he would love to be with 2 girls who are going at each otrher as well as him, but that same person would never think of being with his girl and another guy that he was messing around with. It is all aboutt he egos of str8 males.
2006-07-31 05:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by mresl2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean!! Most gay guys are buff!! My friend and I went to a gay club one time and she looked around and then at me and said..this is were all the hottest went!! do you know how women are very communicative and men are not! Well switch that around w/ homosexuality and there you go! Men acting like women and women acting like men! Thats why gays talk about it more!!
2006-07-31 05:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by whateva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, most lesbians are like men, and some even look like men. But then their are some hot beautiful women that are lesbians and they are very attractive. Two women kissing isn't bad, just as long as they are not sporting buzz cuts and wearing football jerseys with pagers on their belts and walkin like truck drivers.
2006-07-31 05:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by joeschmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly have truly chanced on the choice to be genuine. once I seek advice from my without delay friends, or maybe a number of my lesbian friends, approximately gay intercourse, like info (i comprehend, we are adverse for sitting around speaking approximately human beings's corporation, yet whats up, what can ya do?) plenty of their reactions are, "that's gross". yet while lesbians are reported, that's many times no longer met with such resistance. strange.
2016-10-01 07:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it to be that way. I have been told more often that a women is a lesbian than that a man is gay.
2006-07-31 05:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are twice as many gay men as there are women, and a lot more women identify themselves as bisexual. Therefore, homosexuality is seen as less of an issue for women.
2006-07-31 05:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww ... lesbians are gross ... I can't figure out why men like women with their drippiness and bleeding ... plus the fat on women (boobs) ... but it's been said that men are slaves to their sexual desires ... eww, why would a woman get near that??? I don't think women are slaves to their sexual desires ... dunno, maybe lesbians are and that's why they'd do that gross stuff.
Anyways, since guys are slaves to their sexual desires, when a man is gay his desire is other men ... and this freaks out the other men because they understand how ruthless and persistent a man is when he is driven by his sexual desire.
2006-07-31 08:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋