In any situation where you read too much into something or actually are straight out told something that hurts your feelings, how do you get over it? What's your coping mechanism? Happy answering
2006-07-31 05:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by colorist 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can tell that person your feelings were hurt. If they respond neg. move on and know that you are a better person. If they are sorry, forgive them and know that sometimes others hurt us, because they are in their own little bubble and don't realize they have said something hurtful.
P.S. love your 360 page, you are obviously a beautiful, talented girl, seek out people who only lift you up and get rid of people who seek to bring you down.
2006-07-31 05:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Midwestern Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
feelings are like monsters. the more you ignore dem , the worse it becomes. you can't keep urself fm being hurt. but if you are hurt, breathe, accept the fact that you are hurt, write down on a piece of paper abt how u feel, how dissapointed, how it really affected you... talk to no one for a few hours, give yourself time to heal from the pain. talk to someone close to you. hope dat helps.
2006-07-31 12:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not loosing composure at any circumstances is expected of a person, who would like to uphold dignity. It is like throwing a stone in the gutter, to argue with people who hurt you, for gutter water will be splashed on you only.
VR
2006-07-31 12:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by sarayu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help having people hurt your feelings. However, you can use the phrase I often use and that is "Choose what will offend you and Make your list short." I heard that years ago in a bible study and it has helped me tremendously.
2006-07-31 12:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible but just beleave in yourself and be the best person you can
2006-07-31 12:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not possible... just keep your chin up... and hope for the best
2006-07-31 12:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by ~J♥L♥L~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN"T - not if you're human anyway.
2006-07-31 12:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋