2006-07-31 04:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Know that you are not alone. From time to time my female clients complain that their male partners are "hurting" them during penetrative sex and want to know what to do. Usually these are women who are in loving, caring and otherwise sexually satisfying relationships. The issue is always the same: During sexual intercourse his penis hits the cervix and produces pain. Often the result is for her to simply shut down her pleasure in this way and call it a day. It makes sense that if you are feeling pain during an act that is supposed to feel good, you will eventually avoid the act to avoid the pain. Of course, if you are feeling pain in your reproductive area, I always recommend getting a thorough checkup with your own gynecologist to rule out any abnormalities.
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good luck!
2006-07-31 05:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it hurts maybe u should let him know and if he doesn't stop then maybe u shouldn't have sex with him anymore.or u can go to the doctor and explain whats going on maybe theres something going on with u on the inside and if it all checks out and that's not the problem then it will be best to find someone else who is going to treat u like a person and not like a piece of meat u deserve the best no matter what it is don't settle for less good luck
2006-07-31 12:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by candy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your gyno about it and he can possibly give you something to numb the pain alittle bit. i had the problem for a long time and it never mattered on the guys size or how he did it there was just always pain, but it eventually just passed over time, but talk to your doctor he may be able to give you something that may help
2006-07-31 12:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by mew69_77740 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By first telling him,that you are his girlfriend and not his meat grinder. Sex can only be pleasurable,if both of you are enjoying it. He doesn't seem to understand,that "banging" a female,will cause reproductive problems,in the future. If he won't listen,then find yourself another boyfriend,who will respect your body,as well as you.
2006-07-31 12:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you shouldn't be having sex before you get married. He may doing it just because he wants it, and there's no commement there. I don't know what else to say, except if you guys were married, I'd say, tell him to be more gentle, but since you are not married, I'm sorry.
2006-07-31 12:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it painful? It could be several reasons:
Not enough lubrication
He's too big for your body
He's too rough
You have a medical issue
2006-07-31 12:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ralley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to be on top. Then show him how slow of an entry you need before you really get going.
2006-07-31 12:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your next BF beat him up.
2006-07-31 12:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by elge13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it like a man
2006-07-31 12:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by help mesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to settle down. if that dont work, change bf.
2006-07-31 12:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jorge S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋