Ok, does money really matter? Guys would you consider dating and or marriage to a woman who made more money then you? And, Women would you consider dating or marriage to a man who made less money then you?
2006-07-31 04:43:21 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a woman I would want the man to make more money. I would like the man to be the one to bring back the bacon. If the woman is also a career woman then so much the better. Ultimately the man has to be working.
2006-07-31 05:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some people, money is the MOST important thing in the world, to others it's just a way to take care of material needs. I think it's more important to find out if the other person has the same attitude about money that you have, than it is to know who makes more money. If I make a million a year, and he makes half a million, but I don't care about money, and he is obsessed with it, it will drive us both crazy.
On the other hand, if I make 30 grand, and he makes 25 grand, and we are both laid back about material things, and don't mind living simply, we'll be ok.
I do think that if one of you makes ALL the money, and the other has no job, it becomes a power trip for the one with the paycheck. I don't need to have a lot of money, but I want to be able to feel like I'm not completely dependent for everything on someone else. It's about being independent for me. For someone else, it may not be an issue.
2006-07-31 05:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married twice (first time 20 years this one for 10) and have always made more money than my husbands. It is just the nature of my job and my advanced degrees. Both said it didn't matter at all to them. If a man is self-confident, he will not care.
I think the only exception would be if the husband were not working at all. That is a blow to anyone's self-esteem.
2006-07-31 04:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the kind of economy that we have right now, money does really matters.
If a man is secured with his personality or himself, it doesn't matter if a girl or the woman that she wants to date is earning much more that he does. If you insist, you can pay for all the bills or you can ask her or let her pay some of it. It doesn't really matter as long as you both agree to that paying set-up.
2006-07-31 04:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 12:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money Management matters! If a person doesn't know how to spend/invest money wisely you will always be a day late and a dollar short! ... and Robbing Peter to pay Paul!
Ok, I'm through with the cliches.
2006-07-31 04:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by AILENE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am getting married to a man that makes less money than me... we are happy and we consider it a team thing. We make money together and as long as we are happy then there is no frets. I never use it against him or vice versa. We live comfortably and are both happy with our jobs.
2006-07-31 04:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse makes less than me, but it's do big deal for us. We work for one another. Love is what makes a relationship. If we allowed that to become a problem, we probably would not be together.
If both parties are humble, then it truly doesn't matter.
2006-07-31 04:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Tea_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i would...if my man made less thats between us...not the world...thats just another stereotype that men NEED to make more money...my bf n i r in love and i always tell him we're 1...so it doesn't matter...its not always about the money
2006-07-31 04:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes as a women it would not matter who made more money as long as everybody is truely okay with it
2006-07-31 04:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by flowersandhearts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋