i am having lot of problems with my bf in relation.actually he is busy and have no time to meet and talk.i get disturb bec of all this.i love him a lot.should i ignore him.or stop giving importance to him.will it work?will he come back?
2006-07-31 04:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by DIP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no one can say if he will come back or will it work.Just be patient and see what happens.If he doesn't have time for you, then move on.
2006-07-31 04:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live very near to each other? if yes, why don't you surprise him by coming down to his house to just hang out? it takes two hands to clap, and a relationship needs both parties attention.
i guess u really love this man a lot, but remember that love is also about giving each other personal space. i guess your man works too hard so dats why he is too tired to meet up. but i feel that that should not be an excuse. i personally think that you shd find out whta exactly is taking his time. is it really work? someone else? you shd know the truth coz you deserve to.
How long have you guys been together? months or years?
you are being insecure and there is a lack of trust in the relationship. that is normal because you love him and you don't want to lose him.the only way is to talk to him regarding your feelings and how has it been affecting you. communicate daily. guys have shorter attention span when they are tired so it would be better if you listen to how his day has been rather than talking abt your day. i think its very vexing to want attention from the one you love who doesn't have time for you. you get emotionally tired, really tired.
A man who loves you will always make time for you. He will always place you first. He will make an effort to meet up with you no matter how long the journey from his house to yours. Think abt the last time he did something romantic for you. How long has it been?
send him an sms or pm him telling him that you've been thinking abt him and hope everything is goin well. remind him that although you are not seeing each other face to face, you are thinking of him. i hope one day he will realise that you mean everrything to him. be patient if you feel the relationship is worth holding on to.
the bottomline is, if you don't feel appreciated and being placed as number two, its better to think abt your future. you deserve better and nothing beats the feeling of being loved and appreciated by the guy you love. best wishes.
what i have learnt in life is... its always better to be loved by someone who loves you more thatn you love him. All the best in your love life :)
2006-07-31 04:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship requires interaction and communication. If your boyfriend has little time for you now, it's certain to get worse as time goes by. This is not to say the situation is hopeless. It can become so, however, if you don't make your expectations clear and refuse to settle for less. Compromise is always important, of course, but not at the expense of your well-being. Do not capitulate to his insensitivity.
2006-07-31 04:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leaving him would be best.. u just said that he doesn't make time for u and u don't talk.. so how is he ur boyfriend if u don't see him or spend time with him..
don't play games to get him back because it'll backfire.. be mature about it and talk to him and let him know how u feel and let him know that ur relationship is in trouble..
if he acknowledges that than u and him might be able to get back on the right path, but if he doesn't feel the same way then u may wanna move on cause maybe he's spending time w/someone else...
2006-07-31 04:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you heard that absence makes the heart grow fonder ?? I don't see any problem here except that you seem to have a lot of time in your hands to notice that you are having a problem!! There are other ways of getting his attention you know....use your imagination....and stop worrying.. He will definitly come back to you when he realises that the love of his life is missing...that is if you are the love of his life!!
2006-07-31 04:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 12:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time chasing after someone, tell him that spending time together is important to you. let him go and meet someone new. Maybe later on he will have more time to invest in a relationship.
2006-07-31 04:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ignore him at least act like your trying . tell him you love him often and leave him little letters in his car or at home. make it secretive like a game. keep it sexy. buy a thong or something and leave it on his bed so he'll think of you all day. he will end up spending time with you . if problems arise call him.
2006-07-31 04:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by yamaris c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a break but dont say anything to him......stop calling him all the time..let him call u...u never know it could really just be WORK
2006-07-31 04:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't make someone a priority in your life, while all you are to them is an option."
Good luck!
2006-07-31 04:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mz Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋