2006-07-31 04:25:59 · 27 answers · asked by Aziah W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell knows.
2006-07-31 04:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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have heard many people say they have cheated on their girlfriend or boyfriend, but that they really were in love with their partner and had no feelings for the person they were dealing with on the side. I can't imagine that you could love someone and go behind there back like that, but maybe I'm just niave. What are your thoughts? I'm especially interested in hearing the male point of view on this one, mostly because in my experience, men have an easier time disconnecting from sex. Not all men, of course, but some look at it as just the act, not a deep emotionally connection.
2006-07-31 11:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by neema s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it's not love. If you truely love someone with your heart and soul you wouldn't want to cheat. I have been married 27 years, and I have never cheated, never wanted to because I love my husband. I am human, I do look at other men, but would I ever act on it...no, because I would never want to hurt my husband, plus no other man makes me feel likes he does....You might wonder if I am some dog, and nobody less would be interested, but that's not the case, I have been approached over the years, but I have had no problem turning them down. That's love, and respect for my husband and myself. Cheating is one the worse thing that you can do to another person, and if you are in "love" the possibillty of hurting the other person won't even enter your mind. So, that's not true love.....God bless us all......
2006-07-31 11:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is hard because it is so special. When it comes to love we all want it but there is no set definition of what it is and it varies with each relationship. We are constantly in a state of trying to figure out if the current relationship is love and to what degree, plus we compare it to other loves we have and what other people define as love. This makes cheating easy because we see it as a new love that is full of possibility of being some love greater than what we have.
2006-07-31 11:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because many times, loving a mate means>>> both partners sometimes have to be self-sacrificing, in order for the relationship to be successful.
But, it's not unusual that>>> one or both of them don't want to make the sacrifices that are necessary for the relationship to be strengthened.
Many relationships end because one partner feels they're always giving, but receiving very little (or nothing worth mentioning) from the other partner.
Then they make the all-too-common mistake in thinking the grass is greener on the other side & they go searching for what they need (what they're not getting from their partner)... & end up cheating.
2006-07-31 11:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are not really in love... cheating only comes easy for people not truly in love and people that have no conscience. What is your partner was cheating? Do you feel that is right? When you truly love someone... you will feel sick at the thought of being with anyone else and vice versa. And I mean physically sick. That is true love.
2006-07-31 11:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you say love it also entails respect and loyalty, if you love someone I don't think you can think of cheating is easy. Maybe you can cheat for what ever reasons you have for doing it but if your in love with someone the feeling of guilt would hunt you.
2006-07-31 11:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People find that loving someone is harder than cheating because their urges to go out with someone for cheating are very strong.
2006-07-31 11:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by caltam84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it is hard to love someone, it is because the other person doesn't love themselves and that makes it easy for the other to cheat.
2006-07-31 11:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thank it is becouse the ones that don't cheat are so tared of geting hard that thay are a frade to date. And the one that do don't care to about one one not even there self.
2006-07-31 11:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to stick to your morals. We're all tempted throughout life. Resisting temptations is what builds character.
2006-07-31 11:28:10 · answer #11 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋