2006-07-31 04:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To realize that you also have a past and hopefully you have been forgiven for yours also. The past is just that, it is gone. There is nothing neither you nor your partner can do to change it. But the important thing to remember is that it is history. Hopefully your partner has learned from their past (and you also) and changed the things that need to be changed; thus, you won't have to witness history repeating itself.
2006-07-31 04:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what past you speak of. Is it the past you took part in or a past you have learned about?
If it is a past you have learned about and you are not happy with, then you should call it a day and stop being unfair to this person by thinking you have the right to question it.
If it is a past that you shared and you can't get over it, again I say, call it a day, because there will never be a smooth future.
2006-07-31 08:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caanot forget it, but you can come to accept it as part of your partner's life.
There is no point of dwelling and suffering about it because you cannot change it.
Concentrate in the present and work on the future. Accept people for who they are, experiences an all, and don't waste your time suffering for something that is past tense.
Good luck
2006-07-31 04:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about forgetting the past because you will always remember the negative. It is a matter of you being willing to accept the past...
2006-07-31 04:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never be able to forget the past, just learn how to live with it and move forward. Learn from your mistakes and try not to keep hate and anger inside yourself.
2006-07-31 04:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Alien G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dwell on his past..it will only grind you down and course conflict...after all we all have pasts, does he dwell on yours? Live for now and the future if you want to stay with him, that way you wont become part of his past also!!
2006-07-31 12:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by angel1902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, we all have a past, so leave it there and move forward.
don't look behind, but to the future. if your unsure than only you can decide what road to take . good luck
2006-07-31 05:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to accept that it is in the past and move on else you will go mad if you keep thinking about and it will eventually have an impact on your relationship.
2006-07-31 04:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way....at the end of the day..there with u...they wanna be with u....if they wanted to leave...they would have left....they could have done stupid things in the past....but now (hopefully) they have matured....and most likely they know how u feel abt everything...its gonna take time...but its ok...u'll get through it together..good luck ;-)
2006-07-31 04:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To realize that that is his past and you are his future.
2006-07-31 04:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋