2006-07-31 03:30:45 · 5 answers · asked by Hailie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep it interesting. Since the thrill of the novelty is gone, you have to put the novelty into your routine.
After a while, you rather stay at home and do nothing.... well, is time to get off the couch and do somthing diferent.
Try to go camping or going to a hotel room. Doing it in differtent places breaks off the routine.
Try videoes, toys, lingerie. Tell each other's fantasies and try to fullfill them.
Ask your bf for a date, meet a a new restaurant. Don't rent movies, go to the movie theather. Don;t get pizza delivered, go to a restaurant or make your self a nice romantic dinner.
Try going places: amusement parks, the theater, the ballet etc/ Dress up for no reason. Celebrate your love any day for no reason at all, not just on holidays or anniversaries.
Send a cars via mail to him even if you live in the same place. Leave notes in his pockets for him to find later.
Be fun, make him laugh! be silly, spontaneous, find things that you haven't done already or things that you haven't done in a while.
There is so many ways of keeping the passion alive, the important thing is no to fallinto the cofortable -but dangerous- routine.
Good luck
2006-07-31 04:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You don't--simple as that. Courtship involves complex biochemical reactions that your body isn't capable of sustaining beyond about three years at the max. What you need to do is move on to the next, deeper phase of love, which can still have plenty of intimacy, but feels safe and comfortable instead of out of control and intoxicating.
I say this because if you don't embrace the idea of love changing, you are not going to be able to have a long term relationship that is happy. You should absolutely not take the other person for granted, you should try to do little things that you know will please your spouse, etc.
But don't think it will always be like your first few months together. Your endocrine system couldn't handle that. It's like thinking you can live with lots of adrenalin pumping through you all day, every day. You'd be exhausted and collapse after a while.
2006-07-31 03:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never give it all up, except on special occasions. You have to continue to be creative and dazzling, just like when you were first starting to see each other. Do things to him that he would not expect. This keeps the mystery going, and we all love mystery. Wear a certain perfume and create a atmosphere that tells him, "tonight is all about you." Never over do a good thing. It brings them back, hoping to go there again. Eliminate stress and create a environment of tranquility. This is very stimulating and you might see him pull a rabbit or two out of his hat. Set the mood and they will come!
2006-07-31 04:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like it's still a courtship. I still do the little things that my husband likes because I want to keep him interested and vice versa.
2006-07-31 03:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take each other for granted. Love is about the little things.
Take that extra effort to do something for ur other half and I'm sure he/she will reciprocate as well.
It's never easy but as long as both parties put in effort, it's possible to keep the flames burning like before.
2006-07-31 03:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Swee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋