Over a year ago i discovered my partner was using an on-line dating agencies while i was pregnant with our baby. He says that was just for fun but im not sure if i can trust him again.Since than i became very jealous, checking his phone, emails etc. He is always deleting his text messages from girls he knows and works with as he is hiding something. Its on my mind all the time, am I being stupid?
2006-07-31 03:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He broke his marital promise to you, and you have every right to be suspicious. If he wont come clean, promise to be faithful, and apologize for hurting you, and start building the trust again, then tell him he must leave. You both need marital counselling as well.
2006-07-31 03:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not stupid. Ask your husband if he is still cheating and if he becomes defensive then he is cheating. If my husband thought I was cheating then I would do whatever I could to prove that I wasn't including letting him read email, text even giving him a copy of my phone bill. I believe that there should be no secrets in a relationship, I also believe people have insecurities and its your spouses responsibility to make sure you feel secure.
2006-07-31 10:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right and reason to worry!! My soon to be ex-husband was doing that also"just for fun"....There is a reason we are getting divorced he has a 19 yr old girlfriend. First it was web cites and other people...just for fun he would say now 5+ yrs into out marriage he wabnts to be free to date and so on.
2006-07-31 10:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by betina_scutt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think that you are being smart. i would suggest ocunseling to get the bottom of all of the issues in your relationship. But overall you need to do what it take sto make yourself happy, even if it means leaving him. If you can't trust your husband, then why are you still with him?
2006-07-31 10:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not being stupid. he is probably hiding things.
you need a change in your relationship.
you have to make the change he probably will not.
leave or stay are not the only choices.
change yourself is the best one.
start by confronting him. tell him what you see and how you feel.
you might have to leave him.
2006-07-31 10:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do not show that u r checking him and afetr a while he will reveal his reality.
2006-07-31 10:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
He is a cheater. You can't trust him.
2006-07-31 12:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but he is. shape up, or ship out.
2006-07-31 10:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by mye77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell to stop
2006-07-31 10:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋