I am an American lesbian, and have a would-be girlfriend who lives in England. It will be six months before we can actually meet. We've been sneaking into each others livejournals (we have each other's passwords) and leaving private romantic messages. This morning I came into work to find a "Post Secret" (www.postsecrets.com) in my journal that says "I want to make you feel beautiful all of the time. I want to make you feel the way I feel when I look at you."
I'm trying to think of a way to top this. I don't want to duplicate what she did with the Post Secret. I've already left messages in her journal saying "I miss you more" and things like that. She's rather butch but not as much as she wants people to think, and I'm middle of the road - not the most charming, as she is, but sweet and honest and sincere. I don't want to do anything out of character for me.
Any ideas?
2006-07-31 02:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Sappho 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We do correspond with snail mail on a regular basis, but I'm looking for something I can do online while I'm at work.
2006-07-31 02:24:51 · update #1
If I add comments to what she wrote to me, she won't see them as it is a private entry and she only logs into my journal to leave new messages, not look over the old ones.
2006-07-31 02:33:03 · update #2
Anyone posting an "answer" only to make derogatory comments about the sexual orientation I was born with will be reported. This question is not about that, and if you have a problem with it, go answer a different one.
2006-07-31 02:38:49 · update #3
That is really sweet!! I'm guessing this post secret thing is like an email gift card type thing? Maybe have a look around for those? I can see your dilemma. Maybe just say to her that her surprise left you speechless.
I wish you guys lots of luck. I bet you're counting down those 6 months.
And to that second chick that answered, get a life..
2006-07-31 02:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by kamorth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't need to top it. Just let her know how flattered and pleased you are by her compliment. Tell her that you think that you do feel the same as her. I think the only way you could 'top it' is by telling her that you love her. But make sure that it's the truth before you say that.
Some people are very close-minded. Try not to let it worry you. You're happy, they will always be ignorant people and they will suffer for it.
2006-08-01 03:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an e-card,or virtual flowers,you can also send funny,romantic e-cards to brighten her day.This is cute and will top her words.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-31 02:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is just sick!!!!!!! why are you living like this???? you know its wrong then why do you still do it!!!! i dont understand!!!!!
you want people to appreciate you then stop living this way!!! no-one feels sorry for you and i dont know why you ended up like this!!!! sure you have freedom but your using it the wrong way!!!!! im sorry but i think its just sickening!!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 02:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by lil_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she heard this she would be flattered, I would
2006-07-31 03:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by pixi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, "You already do..."
2006-07-31 02:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋