2006-07-31 02:18:24 · 27 answers · asked by JOHN P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
is good to be a good keeper, if she is single i think you ask for her consent and know why she want that, then go ahead if your mind convince you to , but if not don't eat what don't belong to you, she may need a kid,
2006-07-31 02:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by aliajao 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That really isn't a casual thing. Everyone is mentioning the "18 year commitment" but it is more than that. How about the child's emotional health of having a man who is no more than a "donor" for a dad?? That is something that sticks with THEM forever. There are fewer fathers in families today than any other time in history. Perhaps it is because of this casual attitude towards having children. Please don't consider this with a "neighbor." How about with a long term committed partner??
2006-07-31 19:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to pay child support for the rest of the child's life that she stays with the mother. Unless you plan on marrying this girl- which it doesn't sound like you are, it's not a good idea. You will get married one day, and have a beautiful family of your own, and you wouldn't have to explain to your wife, and or children that you have another child, and have to pay child support to it, and have to visit it when you have your own family to support. Look down the road into the future. Not in the "now". Be smart. Get some good character in your life that defines who you are.
2006-07-31 03:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Miss America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm tough one. are you ready for a kid and considering it? Or do you want advice on how to tell her No way?
just remeber at the end of the day, a child is an eighteen year commitment at the very least, and are you ready, I mean really ready to become a father?
2006-07-31 02:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it tell her to get a man because once is done theres no going back. u will be tie to this women and the baby.
a baby normally is a fruit of love when two people love each other thas when love produce the baby.
dont just give anyone the baby think about it dont be stupid
2006-08-01 07:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by joann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be bound to this person for the rest of your life? Do you have the financial means to support a baby?
Let her biologial clock tick on with out you. This doesn't make for a good way to have a family.
2006-07-31 02:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the most selfish thing i have heard.she has no right to put that pressure on you.do u know her well?she needs help if she just asked u out of the blue and u dont know her,might be a stalker or something.if u r considering it go to ur lawyer and get a contract drawn up,know ur rights
2006-07-31 02:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky guy.be careful about her husband if she married.seems you have intresting job with all nabour.
2006-08-03 23:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by moon walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First she popped over for a cup of sugar, now she wants to pop! Tell her to ask the other neighbour
2006-07-31 03:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why,? does she want more money or something, do u really wanna get some random girl pregnant thats not cool i think ur 2 young since u can't spell neighbour correctly
2006-07-31 02:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so ridiculous. She has got a con in there somwhere. Get ur brain in gear boy. Dnt do it. Its stupid, honesyly.
oOo Tasha oOo
2006-07-31 02:24:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋