2006-07-31 02:03:24 · 9 answers · asked by exiledownunder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes leave her if you dont see a future together because you are just leading her on that is not fair on her.
2006-07-31 02:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why dont you think you'll be with her forever? if it's because you are afraid of commitment then no you shouldn't leave her. If you both understand that you might not be together forever and still care about one another to stick around a few more years, what's the harm in having someone you love and trust in your life as long as possible? If you are faithful to one another and enjoy each others company why would you mess that up just becuz it might not last forever? If you've fallen for someone else or think the relationship has real issues to end it then yes, leave while you're ahead. But if it's just fear of commitment, you'd better get over it. You might not find another good woman who will put up with that kind of relationship. Get some individual counseling. That's what they tell me to do anyhow. I guess I'll see if it works.
2006-07-31 09:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by corrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience I would have to say yes. Start simply by telling to her that you don't want to be with her forever. See what happens, she might feel the same way. Anyway, it's your life and not one single thing can force you to be with a woman you don't want to be with. No matter what happens, the talk with her about this will do you good. Plus it's not fair to her to be with her when you think the way you think. So, be brave and tell her what's in your heart.
2006-07-31 09:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by BonAqua Identity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not string her along. If you know you aren't going to stay, then why make the agony of you leaving worse by waiting a few years and then dropping her. Be honest and let her go.
2006-07-31 13:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by brandiwhine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not going to be with her forever, leave her alone. You need to get on with your life andshe will need time to get on with hers. Dont string her along. Communicate with her. Break the ties.
2006-07-31 09:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think you will be with a woman forever? Stop fooling yourself and move on until you find the right one. (remembe you must love yourself first and formost).
2006-07-31 09:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you are not "in" love with her and it's possible that you may not ever want to be in love. If she feels the same way, then it sounds like you have the perfect relationship. However, if she's looking for committment, then you need to set her free to find love.
2006-07-31 09:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely...actually NO. Would you leave your old job that you don't like before you had a new BETTER one lined up?
2006-07-31 09:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not wife material, I say yes. No point in wasting your time or hers.
2006-07-31 09:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by TIRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋