if he wants to change u in order so that u look good..if he doesnt compliments u.and if asked why ,he says these all r formalities then does he loves u.
2006-07-31 01:56:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it doesn't sound like love so stop wasting ur Time with someone who doesn't make u feel special and wanted and all that nice stuff u only live once and at the moment time is going by when u might actual meet the love of ur life nxt wk. think about it!
2006-08-03 05:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by LEGG$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he would love you exactly the way you are...ever heard the expression "love is blind" well...it is!!!! You see the beauty of the person...not the flaws...as we all have imperfections too...now, if he was wanting to help YOU help yourself in order to make you feel better ABOUT your self that is different...that would be compassion...but for the sake of outward beauty...it sounds as if he is just wanting a "trophy" You did not give much details about this relationship...like is this a new relationship or have you been together for a while? If it is new...you should probably just walk away and find someone who excepts you and loves you just the way you are...if it is not new...then you have some issues to work through together...find an impartial third party that you are both comfortable with to sit down with you and facilitate a conversation to get to the "whys" behind the requests...good luck to you. Be strong !
2006-07-31 02:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by photogram1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't! Nobody can change someone else. That person has to want to change. If someone really likes you he has to like you for who you are and NOT what you look like. Now about the compliments, men don't give these out very often. It just doesn't compute with thier heads that they should, plus they sometimes think that if they do, they might be in a lose lose situation for they might not say exactly what is suspose to be said. So don't worry if a guy doesn't give complients. But if he is trying to make you into something you are not, please ditch him soon, for he isn't the guy for you. A GUY THAT LOVES YOU WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU AND NOT FOR WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE OR HOW YOU ACT!
2006-07-31 02:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by wickedfairymaleficent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, all the more yes cuz it goes to show that he is concerned about you and whatever he thinks is wrong with you he tries to correct so that you can BE A BETTER PERSON... anything wrong with that? You should always be open to criticisms and improvement.
If he doesn't compliment you, maybe he's admiring you quietly and is in the state of satisfaction that he forgets to tell you, and that very moment reminds him of why he fell in love you. So that when you ask him why he doesn't compliment you, all he could say is what's going on in his mind, that "he loves you".
Just be confident in yourself:)
2006-07-31 02:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should love you how you are. If he does not, hes not in love with you. You cant change a person to your likeing because we are all individuals. Most men are controlive that want to change you and thats not good it leads to abuse. You can get tips from guys that want to tell you what they like thats good but you dont have to change yourself for someone. A man should not nit pick of all your flaws, the flaws are what makes us up as different human beings. If I was you Id tell him If you dont like me for how I am and who I am there is the door dont hit your butt on the way out.
2006-07-31 02:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's more interested with appearances. Not giving compliments is something most people negelect to do when they are comfortable with their partner. If you have doubts about wheather he loves you or not then I would tell him and see what his answer is. Not knowing your full situation puts me at a disadvantage, so my best advice it to communicate with him.
2006-07-31 02:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by ella s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this person does not love you, what attracted him to you from the beginning, he should always give you compliments these are words that ladies like to hear from their significant other.
2006-07-31 02:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by busthead213 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy should be less responsive type possibly placid. It is very difficult to judge these characters. Just threaten to leave him. If he reacts, he loves you. If he does not, it is 50:50 may be yes or no.
2006-07-31 02:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by lahirisoumitra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is not love. Love is so unconditional it sees beyond all of your imperfections and only knows the good (compliments).
2006-07-31 02:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Joy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with so many people posting on this question. He can love you but want you to look sexy. There is nothing wrong with wanting you to look sexy. Men are visual. Now if it's a condition for his love then he doesn't love you. If it makes you uncomfortable to dress sexy but he pressures you, then he doesn't truly love you.
2006-07-31 02:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋