Can some tell me what is going on? I'm hurting inside and don't know how to deal with it.
2006-07-31 01:35:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he's just an overly critical person. If he's happy, why are you hurting? Unless he's critical of you, then its a problem. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If the arguing does not stop and you are unhappy, then perhaps it is time to get out of the relationship.
2006-07-31 01:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can say this...
"little things" are relative. I for one am a neat freak and it annoys the crap out of me when...WAIT I won't go there and embarrass myself. These things seem so trivial for people that are nasty slops but for other it's like nails on a chalkboard. Well that sound doesn't bother me but you get the point.
So, he may indeed be happy but the little nuances are annoying him.
Then again, he might be lying! Sorry.
If it is hurting you, you definitely need to talk to him about it. Nothing is worthy continued hurt and pain on the inside. Especially from the one that is supposed to be on your side when all the world could care less. Talk to him. Get it out in the open.
Until you can build up the nerve to do so start paying attention to when this is happening. What time of the month is it for him! LOL! Just kidding. Best wishes.
2006-07-31 08:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, If all his nit-pickiing ends in something sugessting you should spend time apart or if it ends in something even close to that he is taking the coward way out of suggesting break up. Be specific. Let him know that even though u value his opinion u would like it if he is less critical.
2006-07-31 09:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Gifted and Gracious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Was he always like that? If he were, he's just argumentative by nature. But if it something new about him, maybe he's trying your patience and just wants you to break up with him. You find out for yourself which is which.
2006-07-31 08:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u could b abir more specif about wy the arguments r about would help.... he could b feeling insucre or anything but normalythere is a deeper reson 4 the agruing
2006-07-31 08:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe some more details can help us to help u!
2006-07-31 08:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him how you feel?
2006-07-31 08:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by j9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b specific.
2006-07-31 08:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by jayjagjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋