I am wondering how long you should wait.
2006-07-31 01:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by nutroncore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You'll know when the time is right. There is no specific time for love, everyone is different. If I had to guess, and I caution, I am saying "guess", I would say it is probably about 3-1/2 to 5 years when a man proposes to a woman.
2006-07-31 01:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of time, It's a matter of how much your relationship has grown, How comfortable do you feel with each other, how ready are you to make a commitment for life, how well do you know each other. I would wait a year or two (at least) because everybody is nice at the beginning of a relationship, after a while is when everybody show their real self.
My husband and I waited 6 years, we where very young when we started our relationship, so that is also an important factor here (age). So, good luck!!
2006-07-31 08:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by carolina n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong time to wait. If you are planning on spending the rest of your life with your girlfriend, go ahead and ask her to marry you. Then you will guys will have to determine how long you will be engaged and then how long before you get married.
Follow your heart.
2006-07-31 09:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real "time" to wait. It depends on your individual relationshop. You should definatley be talking to your GF about her ideas on getting married. That why you know that she wants to. You should also talk about having a future together, kids no kids things like that before you ask her to marry you. If you can talk about that kind of stuff then you are ready to get married. My husband and I were married after 1year and 2 months of knowing each other. But we were ready and talked for along time about it.
2006-07-31 08:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my hubby asked me first after two years but it actually took me five years to say yes!!!! you want to really get to know a person as much as you can before you make such a huge decision,after wards you may find that there's some things you didn't know about your significant other at all! So please take as much time as you need!!! marriage is not some thing that should be rushed into! Best wishes
2006-07-31 08:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband waited 10 years!
We lioved together for 8 of thoise years and the bugger would not ask me becausde he knkew that i would say YES.
It was a great day when he finally did ask me. I will never forget it.
2006-07-31 08:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband asked me after our first date.
This is NOT recommended.
I'd say, wait until you know a lot about her.
2006-07-31 08:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until she gets ready...she will let you know when.
2006-07-31 08:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋