my parents dont want him,am 25 his 27 we have a daughter 11months,want to wed but my parents wont hear of it,currently am staying with them,they dont want me out of there site,his got a good job so do i.we been together 3 years,should i go ahead wth the wedding arrangments?
2006-07-31 01:18:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes-yes-yes -with out any hitch
2006-07-31 01:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by jayjagjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My parents don't like him. I am 25 and he is 27. We have an 11 month old daughter. We want to get married but my parents think it is a terrible idea. I am living with them right now and they hardly let me out of their sight. We both have good jobs and have been together for the past 3 years. Should I honor my parents wishes or go ahead with the wedding arrangements"
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2006-07-31 08:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why they don't like him? Unless they have a real reason for not liking him I say go ahead. You're a grown person, you should be the one who makes the decisions in your life. Sounds like your parents are still telling you what to do, not good at your age.
On the other hand if you can't even stand up for your self in front of you parents you probably aren't ready to get married.
2006-07-31 08:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years is a fairly long time to have been together!!! Have they been good years, or do they have their ups and downs??? Have you asked your parents exactly what they have against your boyfriend that they feel this way about him, it might be worth a try. Keep in mind that if you do get married that they might want you out of their house, so you just might have to make other living arrangements. So, make sure that you have money set aside for that as well!!! Good Luck to you!!!
2006-07-31 08:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious about their objections to this man. However, you are an adult. You do not need their permission to marry.
By the way, since you're living with your parents, they probably feel they have the right to make their opinions known. You mention wedding plans. If they don't approve, don't expect them to foot the bill for a big wedding. Plan a small, inexpensive wedding you can afford on your own.
2006-07-31 09:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. If you love each other and you are seriously committed to have a life together then why not? Your parents should realise you are a responsible person and able to take decisions for yourself. If they still dont, just go for it anyway - of course if your heart and mind tell you that you are doing the right thing. Your parents might be angry at the beginning but they will surely realise this someday
2006-07-31 08:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not 16 anymore you are 25 yeasr old a grown woman with a child of your own.Its time you grow up and your parents let you.I would go ahead with your plans to marry its time for u to move on with your life and have a family of your own.You need to think about leaving your parents home as soon as possible.They may not be happy if you decide to stand up and take control of your own life they sound like very controlling people.The only reason i could see that they dont want you to marry him is if you guys have been having trouble or he has been abusive towards you but even still this is your desision not theres.Good luck girl
2006-07-31 08:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are leaving out some information. Your parents would not be that strong about you not marrying him for no reason. Parents can always see things that you do not. Maybe you should listen to them and if their reasons are rediculous then go ahead and get married. But I am sure that there is more to it than this.
2006-07-31 08:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have a daughter with him so you guys are connected for the rest of her life regardless. If you love him and thats what you want to do, marry him. My parents didn't like my husband initially, now they like him more than me I think. That may not happen with you guys. It will be hard, but you are a big girl, you don't need your parents permission, especially since you already have a child with him. Good luck with you and your family!
2006-07-31 08:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by daweeney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 with child and job relationship for 3 years? Is he a creep or something? If not get out from under your parents wings and move on with your life.
2006-07-31 08:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Youre too old to have to be under your parents thumb. Dont get married to "Get back" at your parents, only do it if youre sure you want to make a lifelong committment to yor man.
All the best!
2006-07-31 08:27:05 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ Krista ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋