is a 8yr and 11 mth age gap too much to start a realionship im 20 and he is 29 and he is a great guy?

Question

but i do not know what to say to a date

Answer 1

hey girl, an 8yr and 11mnth age gap is nothing compare to a 13 yrs age gap,like me and my boyfriend!! as long as you love each other age doesn't matter!!!! You dnt have to think what to say or what to act in front of him on a date, just be yourself!!!

Answer 2

Im also 20 and ive asked this same question to myself.What you should do is make absolutrly make sure that the both of you want the same things out of your life together and relationship. For example he most probably is looking for a wife quickly now becase of his age, are you looking for a husband now? most poeple want children at age 25 does he want one now, will he wait 5 more years for you so you can persue your dreams?

Answer 3

You are both over 18 and you should have some idea of what you want. I say do NOT let age get in the way. Try it, if it doesn't work then at least you will always be wondering what if!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

at that age the age gap really isnt a big deal. people told me not to date a guy 3yrs older than me but i was a lot younger. but they told me when u get older and more mature that i coud date who ever i wanted. so i think its ok if date him. just try not to get hurt!

Answer 5

My girlfriend and I have a fifteen year age difference and we are as happy as can be. Such age differences are only a problem to people outside of the relationship, if you are happy go for it.

Answer 6

this gap is fine.if you can find things in common the conversation should flow naturally.talk about things you are both interested in.sometimes its nicer to have an older guy cos they are more mature.

Answer 7

I SEE NO HARM HES NOT RUSTY YET SO GO FOR IT, IF YOUR INTERESTED SAY YES EVEN A WALL COULD HAVE TOLD YOU THAT BEBE AINT YOU HERD IT "AGE AINT NOTHIN BUT A NUMBER"