My new G/F is a wonderful person and I feel that she can be an ideal life partner. But here are two considerations for me before reaching at any final decission. Firstly, shes three year elder than me and mt friends are of view that, she,ll ultimatly take control of you and will become authoritarian with passage of time. Secondly, her elder sister soon after getting married forced her husband to get a seperate home and he had to oblige. Now, I,m a person can not think about leaving my family, She seems very decent and caring now but will she remain as same?
2006-07-31 00:44:39 · 4 answers · asked by raheel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you said shes a wonderful person, but the question is, do you really love her? if you do, why do you have to consider other persons opinion? They are not the one who will marry her, they will not live with her. It is normal that others will criticised her because of your age gap. We cannot please everyone!!!!!!! So if you really love her marry her without any question
2006-07-31 01:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by lady_blou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your life. did you ask your friends before you fell in love with her. it's true women mature earlier but if you really love her then age does not matter, then people vary. not all girls are same and its not necessary what her sister did she will repeat but you ought to know her. how well you know her and how much she loves you matters more. take time you are still young but whatever you do first become independent and then get married
2006-07-31 07:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Explorer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes marry her forget about the age difference. my mum and ad have 9 years difference and are still married 27 years later. and just coz her sister did the same this women won't do it just because there related don't make them the same person
2006-07-31 07:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by M_HARTLEBURY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a "new" girl friend, why should you consider this now already? Take your time to get to know her, enjoy sex, finally live together and see how it works.
THEN you can decide, at least that's the way I think.
2006-07-31 07:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋