2006-07-31 00:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You cannot "make" someone else feel anything. Of course, people try to all the time. Call someone a bad name, for example, and more often than not, he or she will become angry. But if they are wise, they will know that your insult was meant to hurt them, and they will smile serenely and tell you that is your opinion.
So, you can say, "I notice that you seem to be hurting. Would you like to talk about it?" If you can help them identify the feelings of self-hatred, he or she may then be able to realize that those feelings are just that, feelings. They do not define the person. He or she has control over thoughts and feelings. Once they take responsibility for their feelings, and realize that their feelings do not define them, they will be on their way to serenity.
2006-07-31 00:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by scott w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay u ask a good question
but here is one answer & that is do as other person want.
but when u do as other person want they r be happy but u r not happy.
in this world it is not possible that all person loves u.
when we did any work some r happy & some r sad .
the + & - will run paller to each other.
only we try that u r happy & not hate other persone .
Person hate themselp becuase they know what they .
if u wan to stop then join them Art of Living
& tell that u r happy only then other r happy to see u .
2006-07-31 00:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by shorewalas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the comparable reason i do no longer stick my hand in a mild socket in spite of wanting to be responsive to if i might fairly get taken aback, instinct. this is human nature to combat to stay alive. this is why human beings each so often do no longer die whilst they shoot themselves interior the pinnacle. They cringe(in different words have a moments hesitation) and reason the shot to shoot an area that's no longer without delay deadly. There additionally are those all and sundry is basically drama queens and kings who do no longer probably propose what they say. they are basically dealing with a coarse time and that they also have a pity social gathering for themselves.
2016-11-03 09:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not being bad parents. Children of loving parents don't hate themselves.
2006-07-31 00:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by yadayada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is like trying to bring back to life a dead person...more critically is the question ' how do we get people to love themselves'
2006-07-31 00:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by interlude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by giving them ego boost, and more attention. but people are never happy with themselves, its themselves have to realize why they hate themselves and work on themselves.
2006-07-31 00:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't it has to be up to them to say I'm not that bad, but you can help by telling them they look nice and are a good person.
2006-07-31 00:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by wildfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by giving thenm moral boost
2006-07-31 00:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by shal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By convincing them how and why they should love themselves !
2006-07-31 02:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're saying that when a person is born, it's supposed to hate himself/herself? my poor friend...
2006-07-31 01:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by therifleman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋