My very close friend has said she will never speak to me again and im in pieces....Ive been quite sick with breathing problems and she has been a great support...I have refused to let her call an ambulance as I didnt want to go to hospital...i was meant to have a scan today but cant face it and am going to re-book via my gp but she said if you dont go i will never speak to you again. She meant it and thats it....im heart broken???? Even if i go i cant see her ever speaking to me again- she prob wouldnt believe i even went. Any ideas - this is all my fault for pushing her away.
2006-07-31 00:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im in my mid twenties not a child x
2006-07-31 00:29:43 · update #1
obviously you and your friend were very close...if you are suffering very badly from the fall out!! Why has she said she wont speak to you?
It is obvious that she has been your greatest support and you need her by your side.
But she is only thinking of you she wants you to get better and she probably cant stand seeing you in pain and just wants you to seek help maybe you should reverse the situation and put yourself in her position you wouldnt want to see her ill and you would want her to seek help!
Maybe ask her if she will go with you to the doctors then you will get support and she will know you are definently going...
Good Luck
Abbie
2006-07-31 00:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by <3 JD <3 1 · 20⤊ 3⤋
Okay I understand you being scared about the test but anybody that would say "I'm never going to speak to you again" because she/he didn't go for a test is NOT a friend... friends stick around for the good and the bad that's how you know that they are a true friend. Sounds to me like you need to stop fretting over this and move on. Wait a second... how old are you cause this sounds lilke something a younger child would do????
2006-07-31 00:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up and ask her to come with you to the doctors. Not wanting to go to the hospital when its obvious you need to is RIDICULOUS. Take care of yourself and be sensible, or you will lose a lot more than a good friend trying to be a good friend.
2006-07-31 00:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only cares about you and wants whats best for you. You need to adhere to your medical conditions and see that you make these appts. Its very difficult to try your best to help someone you love, but then to see that they won't help themselves. For some people its too much and if you want whats best for both you and your friendship, try to look after yourself, as she will see that you are making the effort.
2006-07-31 00:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding from health issues... is stupid. (in my opinion)...
It will either get you... or you could... with appropriate treatment... extend both the LENGTH and QUALITY of life.
You didn't say how old you were... but if you're an ADULT you need to act like one. Allowing someone to care for you also means doing YOUR part.
I hope you will be okay,
2006-07-31 00:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go, do it for her she is obviosly careing for you so repay the favour, she is probably sick of trying to help and you throwing it back in her face and being awkward
2006-07-31 00:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
,,,,,,, you sad git.........live your life, dont depend on others to help you with it. Do things FOR YOURSELF, things that will give you pleasure, and dont cost a lot, if anything. Join a local group (there are lots to choose from) and if you dont know where to get this info from, contact your local Council....they will tell you whats going on where you live......... you need to get out and socialise more........start living....life will end one day.
2006-07-31 00:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by paul_9_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a serious illness she probably doesn't want to just watch you die while you do nothing. Go get checked out, she's just concerned.
2006-07-31 00:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by d_magical_s_sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was a little harsh... She should have been more supportive and stop using a guilt trip to get you to do something...
Ignore and let her stew...
Move on with your life...
2006-07-31 00:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Try to calm down. Anyway, if she is your friend you will speak again.
2006-07-31 00:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋