i have a friend whom i love. we are about the same age. she is like a sister to me. we both have said to each other at different times that if the other were male we would get married! i'm not gay at all but we are so much alike and we love each other so much. is it normal to have a best friend that you feel so strongly about? it's almost like being in love just NO sexual thoughts!!!
2006-07-31 00:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by daddysgirl85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hun, let me tell you something, if you and your friend are that close, be greatful, cherish it, love the friendship like a flower and watch it bloom. there is nothing wrong with that, not at all.
2006-07-31 00:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by addieskull666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal, a friendship like that doesn't come around very often, but i have a friend and we feel just the same. We think that we where somehow connected in a past life. And no I'm not a gay either!!
2006-07-31 00:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is likely to have the best friend and with friendship love starts and with love sexual things starts OK take care.
2006-07-31 00:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by mohd s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's perfectly normal and not at all uncommon. You're talking about what's commonly referred to as a "girl crush." Do a search on "girl crush" and you will find a lot of information. Here is one article you may find interesting: http://love.ivillage.com/fnf/fnfstayclose/0,,michon_89dg8sph,00.html
2006-07-31 00:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by smoovegeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is normal as long as it does not disturb your actual love life. girls normally have a strong feeling for there friends because they know what true friendship is especially in teen age. hope that answers your question.only a girl can answer this one!
2006-07-31 00:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by it's me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um maybe i know i have felt very strongly about a friend of mine but never that way gee but yea i guess its possible i dont know why not and it could be your having pre-gay thoughts like maybe your trying to become gay or you are just relizing that you are already gay i dunno but dont worry to much about it hope you figure it out
2006-07-31 00:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is'nt that why shes ur best friend? U love her as a friend not in other ways
2006-07-31 00:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by naomayyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, ask yourself,would be comfortable ( not jealous/insecure) if you're friend gets a boyfriend?
If No ----> You're not gay
If Yes ----> You could be.
2006-07-31 00:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by oops1388 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal
2006-07-31 01:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sociopath 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not normal. ur definitely gay :) get over it. hahaha
2006-07-31 00:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by ugahbugah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋