I previously posted a question about annoying traits that all women have. No one mentioned this one, not honestly answering when their man asks what's wrong and expecting them to figure out what they did wrong.....all the while getting more mad.
What are we supposed to do when you're mad and won't tell us why?
-Leave it alone for a few hours
-Accept a few hours/days of discomfort around the house
-Manipulate the answer out of you
-Meditate on the last week/month of our behavior
>>I know what doesn't work, demanding she admit what you both know is true, she's mad and she is afraid you won't validate her and/or she just plain wants you to suffer a while longer.
2006-07-31 00:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"Nothing" actually means- "Nothing that I care to talk about at this moment." But! We do want to talk, we just want you to be sensitive enough to admit that you offended us, and maybe a little gentle picking it out of us wouldn't hurt. That shows us that you care enough about our relationship to try to work things out. But you are right, we want you to suffer. We hurt. You should hurt. Its that simple. And yes, think about what you did. And if you care about our feelings, stop doing it. We can tell some guys till we're blue in the face what hurts us, and they just shuts us out and continue. This guy doesn't care about our feelings. He's selfish.
And then you just have those women who are - well- into getting their way all the time, and you couldn't make her happy no matter what you did... In that case, SHE needs to grow up and realize that it's not ALL about Her!! Any relationship should be about both people. But a lot are one-sided.
Shows that you care or you wouldn't be trying to figure it out. Although-- I'm a woman, and I can't figure most of them out!! Keep trying, and good luck!
2006-07-31 00:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by savannah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say her that you understand she is sad and want to see her happy, if she doesn't say what the problem is, then leave it alone for a few hours and say her why do this. If when comeback she yet was sad, and doesn’t say any thing, calmly ask her talk with you and try to guess her problem, keep in mind shouldn't be angry and shouldn't leave her until comprehend the reason of her sad. Don't try convinced her, she doesn’t want you to give a reason, she just want sure that, still her emotion is important for you.
2006-07-31 08:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by neda m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry missed your previous question but best thing to do is to let us go as it makes it worse, my partner always knows when my period is near. I am the biggest ***** for a while until i recognize that my dam hormones are playing up, then i try to behave.Some women just seem to be constantly hormonal the younger they are the worse it is, In any case if you are lucky, you may be reincarnated as a female.
2006-07-31 09:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are so mad that we know that if we talk right then about what we were mad about the argument will just get worse. This is usually remedied by you doing it to us like a madman. Then the anger dissipates and everyone is happy again.
2006-07-31 07:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lot of drama for no good reason......I usaually pull the pin on that relationship after that nonsense.
2006-07-31 07:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never assume my husband knew what he did to piss me off - men just don't think like we do and are constantly doing inconsiderate things without realizing (because another man would not find it inconsiderate).
Tell her (politely) that you can't read her mind and need to know when she is angry and why.
2006-07-31 07:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Drummer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you need to get into some serious counseling. WOrk on those communication skills.
2006-07-31 07:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it cos i want him 2 no how angry i am and want him 2 make it up 2 me and because i dont want 2 sy sumtin i dont .mean
2006-07-31 07:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by pops6w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god i soooo do that LOL
usuallt when he says "what?" and i say,,, well lets be honest... when i SNAP back "NOTHING" usually means he said something i didnt like. so when he says "i'm sorry i didnt really mean that" i feel better
2006-07-31 07:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug her from the back when she is in the kitchen and keep asking her why she is mad.it never fails!
2006-07-31 07:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋