How do i meet a decent girlfriend? one i can show to my parent?

Question

I usually fall in love with the most rebelious, dishonest, pot - smoking, tattooed , ho's. i need to find a decent girl with ambition and morals. Where do u find them

Answer 1

I think the life u live has only that kind of girls in it
I suggest you to change your own lifestyle. Because that kind of girls want also that kind of boys So be one of that boys :)
Afterthat You will not need to search for them because
they will find you..

Answer 2

Martin Luther King
Rosa Parks
Emily Parkhurst
The civil rights movement
Ghandi

ALL REBELLIOUS yet had better ambition and morals then those who conformed and would be what parents like...


Think about that...


Likewise tattoos are art and often mean a lot to those who got them and often were part of a rights of practice...

Many of not most doctors, lawyers, politicians etc probably all tried dope as a teenager along with other rebellion and heavy metal, goth, psytrance types with mad hair have been the nicest lot you can ever meet and the peace loving hippies who helped end the vietnam war and started the environmental movement probably were into free love...


You need to look deeper as to what makes a decent person on the inside which is more important then what they are on the outside that parents may approve of.


Sex in itself or promiscuity are not immoral.

And if you look closely at the church or islam you will find it is the most immoral and family wholesome values have lots in common with the nazis.

Immorality is mistreating others unjustly something suit wearers who have respectable jobs often do...


Its gang members and thugs and bullies and bitchy types you need to avoid.

Rock, goth, psytrance scenes often have nice people as do extreme sports scenes.

Answer 3

at church, you find nice girls at church, believe you me the church is full of single women, due to a shortage of Christian men, most christian girls realise that they will never meet a man who is a christian and have since long given up on it. Accept her as she is, accept her faith and never try to get her to leave her faith or God - because she'll dump you long before she dumps God! Accept that she has her beliefs. Just having a tattoo or ebing subculteral, wearing distinctive or unusual clothes - does not make some one 'bad'. There are all types of people on this earth and some churches reflect that - good luck in finding a wife of noble character, Im going to bible bash you here, it says somewhere in the bible that a man who gets a wife from the lord gets a good thing, do you deserve a good thing????

Answer 4

You might be attracting that kind of girl without knowing it. Check out how you are dressing and where you hang out. A decent girl with ambitions and morals will not be hanging out in a place that doesn't have anything interesting to her.

Answer 5

what do you mean by decent girl? do you want one that needs to be clubbing or do you want a girl that is quiet, doesn't have to go out on the town every night, is happy just to live a nice ordinary sort of life, educated, affectionate,, or are you just interested in showing a glamour girl off to your parents. i think you have to forget the parent business and concentrate on the person you wish to meet. i wish you luck ,you will need it, not a great selection out there, of the second type i mentioned,and i think you should have a rethink of the places you hang out, if you always pick up the sort you describe.

Answer 6

those u mention might be decent one but u judge them by their tattoo and smoking but actually they are nice people why don't u get a nun to be ur wife Mr prefect are u that good as the quality ur looking for if not shut up and accept what ur lover have if ur parent don't like her is their problem not urs not hers ur getting together with her and u might even married her and live until death do u guys apart not ur parents getting married to them so u better think about it or juz go some where with no civilization to find ur ms right for ur parents and yourself *ss h*lE

Answer 7

If you really can't find a specific girl you like without them being a snob, try an online dating service like:

www.match.com
www.eHarmony.com (free trial for 7 days)

Here at these websites, you can look for girls and match them with your personality type. This may help you not to find a snobbish ho like you say. Good luck

Answer 8

Churches.

Answer 9

Well, first you need to be a decent boyfriend. It sounds like you're tired of being just another John to the girls who use sex like a video game. I'm glad you're maturing. The only thing is, you now need to learn how to treat a real lady.

I won't ask if you have a man you look up to who treats his wife or his "girlfriend" with respect. If you'd had an example like that, you wouldn't have gone the other direction.

So, first of all you have to clean out your heart. You can't give a filthy, smelly heart to a decent girl. Without knowing your age, I'm not sure what kind of reputation you're going to have to clean up, too. The decent girls will not trust that you will be the type of guy they want to introduce to her parents. You may have to be patient and spend some time proving that you're wanting to change your way of life and the type of people you make your friends. Remember. Decent girls aren't being snobs; they're being cautious and wise. They have self-respect and they see themselves as far too precious to just give away for a "good time."

Then set your priorities. Decent girls want to "date". Boyfriends and girlfriends date; they do not have sex. Sex was made for those who are married. Dating is a time for you to get to know each other, for you parents and her parents to be able to protect both your hearts. Dating is a time when you start building trust and like each other as friends FIRST.

If you are wanting to continue your "party" life, then you will not find a decent girl. Morality is not found at the bottom of a beer glass or at the end of a pipe. It's found in the spirit of a person who wants to give the person they marry something precious and something you will throw into the garbage.

Learn to respect yourself and teach others to respect you.
Stand firm on some principals---moral principals.
You will probably have to change your social circle. Friends who don't mind being treated like garbage will treat others like garbage. Who your friends are usually dictates what type of girl you date. If you girlfriend's parents would not allow her to be around the types of people who are your friends, then they won't allow her to be around you either.

Get ready for some parental involvement. Moral people in their teens have moral parents. Kids who can be trusted and respected are kids that have been taught what trust and respect are. Parents of moral children will want to know their friends, their friends' parents, and will probably ask you to have "home" dates before you are allowed to have "go out" dates. That is so they can see how you treat their daughter.

Because we are born in original sin, our "natural" self and "natural" tendencies are immoral. So, morality must be learned. I'm sorry you have not had any parental involvement in your life who could teach you morality. But it's out there. All those kids you have seen as geeks and "Jesus Freaks," get to know them. They won't trust you at first, so you'll need to be patient with them. But let them know that you're sincere, and they will be your greatest sources of strength.

I am so happy that there is a young person who is finally tired of the garbage. You will be in my prayers---sincerely (I make a list of people on these boards and pray for them every day).

DON'T GIVE UP, no matter how your "old" friends put you down. They are headed on a destructive path and they're just upset that you won't crash and burn with them.

If you are sincere about wanting to change, and if you do what is necessary to change yourself, then you will be blessed with a girl that will be a benefit to your life, your spirit, and your integrity.

God bless you.

Answer 10

Just open yours eyes and carefully choose a girl for a girl friend which is just right for you to love you for who you really are...
hope you'll be able to find one real soon!