I'm a 29 year old married woman, 6 months pregnant and feeling unattractive and low as my husband no longer finds me attractive (since the pregnancy) - before he couldn't keep his hands off me!
Last week I got an email from my best friend husband saying, "Hi, It was good to see you last night, I can't get over how much being pregnant suits you, you look stunning and sexy. Please don't tell Sarah I sent this, but I can't stop thinking about you now. I love how curvy you are now, especially how much your boobs have grown (Sarah said they were now 36DD!). I don't want to offend you, but would you consider letting me see you in your bra - you know I have a thing for girls with big boobs and last night your cleavage was driving me crazy - I think you knew that and were playing with me!"
That's the gist of it, can't fit anymore in here. It's so nice to get some attention and it made me feel sexy again, but should I let him see, I'm worried things may get out of hand - he is pretty cute
2006-07-30 23:19:28 · 16 answers · asked by ShyBunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks for all the answers, I'd just like to clarify that I'm not suggesting starting an affair with this guy, just showing him my boobs in my bra, it would be nice to see him get turned on by my body.
2006-07-30 23:44:04 · update #1
I wouldn't show them to him unless you really want to get on that slippery slope. He'll ask for a little bit more and a little bit more. Its just a bad situation unless you really want to have an affair.
2006-07-31 02:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by andyjudge1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your thinking of ruining 4 lives because your feeling unattractive your crazy. First your husband might just be a little nervous about the situation if it is your first child. I know I was cautious about how to proceed. Second your hormones are out of wack your going to feel different.Third, if this is your "best" friends husband you should tell her what a dirt bag he is. Imagine how you will feel when you give birth and this creep no longer wants to be with you. Will you still be able to look your husband and "best" friend in the face.
2006-07-30 23:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by reznap12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO I mean NO I am pregnant as well but this guy sounds like a creep BIG Creep and if you are any kind of friend you want do that to Sarah.Iknow that this guy needs to be slapped but at the same time I can definitly understand it being exciting that he thinks you are sexy..Thats cool but leave it at that Control the urge and even though its hard when your pregnant it will be worth it in the end.....With Love
2006-07-30 23:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No!!!! Just think what it may do to you and your husband. There must be some reason why you married him. Maybe he is so caring that he is afraid to hurt you or the baby. Let him know that sperm in some ways actually help protect the baby. I have read it in a book. Cant remember which one. But you and him need to talk to your doc to get this cleared up. And you need to let your husband know your feelings
2006-07-30 23:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult males get incredibly weird and wonderful whilst there is in basic terms some weeks to circulate. We stopped having intercourse approximately 4 weeks earlier i became into due, and same element, i in my opinion wanted to and he did no longer choose something from me. he's crushed with all that there is to come again, and is going to be a nutcase and distant till after the infant is born. do no longer project nevertheless, intercourse comes decrease back with a vengeance as quickly as the well being care professional can provide the "all sparkling". we actual have 5x extra intercourse now than we did earlier I even have been given pregnant. sturdy success!
2016-10-08 12:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think.... he's your best friends husband. Do you really want to do that to her? Your better off trying to get some attention from the man you choose to be with.
2006-07-30 23:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run from that fire, don't play with it. Yes, feeling attractive is very important, but you'd be messing up your best friend's relationship as well as your own. The momentary esteem boost will do you no good when you end up a friendless single mom.
2006-07-30 23:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a decent person will not even consider it !! if you love your husband don't do it , your husband is just probably thinking that he will hurt you or the baby ,isn't that he doesn't find you attractive !! when i was pregnant My husband always told me i was more beautiful than ever and he loves me more i notice !!! so your husband may fell the same .
2006-07-30 23:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think if you do this and your husband finds out and leaves what are you going to do after you have the baby when your alone and have to do everything on your own.
2006-07-30 23:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your husband is afraid of hurting you and the baby. It happened to me when my wife was pregnant with our first. try talking to your husband if he ever mattered at all to you. from your question it doesn't sound like you'll be married for long anyway.
2006-07-30 23:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋