Mom just told me and my brothers yesterday. You know . . . I never dreamed anything like this could happen to my parents. I knew they were having problems, but nothing they couldn't work out somehow.
I don't know what's going to happen now.
2006-07-30 23:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Katie M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should be strong, whatever you will be going through be brave to face it and learn from it. if it hurts you so bad, don't let it happen again to your future children, be very wise whom you pick as your partner. move on.
2006-07-30 23:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by roel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-27 00:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing about 5 years ago. I was 17 and my parents told my sister and I that they were getting divorced. My dad tried to get my sister and I to convince my Mum not to go through with it but putting the kids in the middle just makes things worse for everyone.
There isn't anything you can do to stop them if that's what they decided upon. All you can do is be supportive for both of them and don't take sides.
2006-07-30 23:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by superspongeseven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it was a difficult decision for both of them. As I sure it was difficult you and your brothers to learn that your parents will no longer be together. However, the only thing you can do is be supportive to both parents, and try not to take sides. After all, they equally will never cease to become your parents.
2006-07-30 23:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like bad moment in life
things bad or good have to be part of life
ur parents r having problems together .
then let them get apart
so that they'll know hows life without each other
maybe they will come together or remain apart
but this is life
the show must go on .u concentrate on making life good for both of them
make them happy
ok
regards
rajul
2006-07-30 23:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by rajul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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1} they want divorce becaus any 3 rd person is between then eg
and women or men if yes then you have to try your level best to stop them
2} if the reason is not the above said then its easy just you have to understand wht are short falls between them and you should bea communication bridge between them
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2006-07-30 23:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by amar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, don't stress and remember it has nothing to do with you. It's your parents' problems, not your's.
Things will probably be stressful for a while, moslty when one of your parents moves out and, during all the paperwork, custody stuff. JUST DON"T STRESS!
2006-07-30 23:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of the middle of it. Don't allow either one of them to talk badly about the other...say "I know you're upset, but I love both of you and I'm not going to take sides...you need to work this out as adults, and try to remember you're also parents and we need both of you".
Good luck, Sweetie. It isn't going to be easy, but don't get in it. This is between them...
2006-07-30 23:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you must remember, its not about the children.
It all about them. There really is nothing children can do.
Resist the urge to place blame they are both your parents and they both love you.
2006-07-31 00:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do but be there for the both of them. I am sure that for your sake and your bothers that they tried as hard as they can. But it is an unhealthy relationship that they need to end.
2006-07-30 23:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋