2006-07-30 23:03:00 · 6 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It is the way of the world, the male is the aggressor. It is the fun of the chase.
2006-07-30 23:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think mans 2020 is right. It's not that you can't feel that they want to, so stop boasting about your perceptivity here. But they don't show it directly, they only hint it. They always leave a way out of it - a possiblity to say "no, I didn't want it, whatever gave you that idea?" I've recently talked to my girlfriend about it - you know, it's actually a lot better to talk to people in front of you, instead of asking "dumb" questions on the net, where there's so much output that you get, where most people wouldn't be there, if they could really talk to real people :) and where not everybody's a psychologist, to say the least. And I've been talking about that to other women, as well - and men. For women, opening up to making love is a greater leap of faith, initially - because of the physical act, per se, because of the power hyerarchy in the act of it and because of education. Accepting it makes a lot of them ask themsevles if they're not sluts, even though they want it. Taking that further step, asking for it, requires crossing a divide that many women can't cross. Some of my friends (women friends) said they would want to that - that they wanted to "feel cheap" they said it, but there's something in the back of the head fastening them down. And these women are NOT easy and what they meant by cheap is another thing that you may have in mind. Yet, I know some women who do that - just come to you and start kissing you - which is great - not in a hedonistic - male shovinistic pig - kinda way - there's a lot of women just waiting to say that about anything - but in that communication, not being afraid, directness, honest and open kind of way. Of course, there are gonna be morons thinking "I'm just the gorgeusest, the coolest dude in town, she couldn't keep her hands off me" Or "she's a slut, man. Oh, I ain't gonna marry this particulaer woman". That's just the reverse of that way of thinking, cause, like many women, some people think a NORMAL woman WOULDN'T do that.
2006-07-31 06:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tryggvasson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because ladies are a bit tamer than men. Plus the fact that women have a lot of emotion outlets than guys.
2006-07-31 06:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who gave u that idea? ladies do too, but ladies don't show it to the world!
2006-07-31 06:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by miauwme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to brush up your antennas a bit, as ladies give enough signs, you just need to know, how to read them, that's all!
2006-07-31 06:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do show it when we need affection...it could be that men don't pick up on that...
2006-07-31 10:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋