He broke up with me telling me he wasn't happy. But I feel like his new girl is making his life more miserable... he started smoking, he drops school, he joins fraternity....he isnt himself anymore... I want to kill HER!!
2006-07-30 22:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by Felicity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how do you know its not all his own decisions, why do you put it down to her? are you jealous? is there any basis to the idea that she is doing this to him? have you spoken to him/her recentely?
Speak to him after all he has the free will to make his own decisions right??
just voice your concern to him i would say...
2006-07-30 22:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you will be like her if you decide to kill her. You need to address this situation like a woman, if you cant beat them join them and make the matter work for you. First of all you and your ex need to seriously talk. Let him know that you still care about him and do not let him know he has a problem until you earn his trust coz this will drive him away.
Next talk to his mom. Oh boy mothers are the best whenever it comes to making their sons become men. Tell her what he is doing and let her come to talk to him. Be there for him and when the situation becomes worse, dont abandon him. There might be more to this smoking and dropping out of school than meets the eye.
2006-07-30 22:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him, and find out why he is behaving that why. He can realize that you still care and this would be an opportunity for you to get back with him again. From your talking, it is like you still love. Help him out after all he is still a friend I guess.
Killing his current kill friend is not worth it you might just get you in jail for nothing.
2006-07-30 23:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by mwilaeuzaih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam deal with it hell he left you ..you didnt leave him ..now if thats the life he wants to live them let it be.. you cannot change him..as for killing someone even if you kill her you still wont get him cause you will be in prison 4 life and then you wouldnt have any idea what he is up to while you in jail but im sure that he will be laughing at you
2006-07-31 03:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by libby71763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it be. sounds like they will kill each other. do you really think hes worth all the fuss ,hes a drop out ,does god knows what......lets put it like this ,is he the same person you fell in love with or is he someone else that you never knew .let it go ,before you ruin your life too
2006-07-30 23:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by james j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is in basic terms happening becasue you're afraid of them. do no longer enable the breakup get to you! you're for specific too stable for him. in basic terms bypass directly to a distinctive guy who you understand won't harm your coronary heart indoors the comparable way he did. each evening, relax, take a deep breat, and picture of of something/somebody that makes you smile. =] Sashay
2016-12-10 18:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now you can't kill her. Is he worth going to jail over, at which point you would probably be turned into a lesbian and it won't have mattered anyway. Let him go, obviously cause now your question is all over the place.
2006-07-30 22:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by broncos2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what is jealousy ,find some one who is better than your ex-boyfriend and show it to him that he had made a terrible mistake of his life by breaking up with you ,in that way you transform your bad energy into something more constructive ,right? can you? or would you be able to do it ! if not
,there is no point to hate him !
2006-07-30 23:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by meaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is, EXBOYFRIEND, he's none of ur business anymore. Maybe he's happy being a loser. Get someone who worth ur attention!
2006-07-30 22:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by miauwme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just go ahead and just knock on a officers window and tell him to arrest you now, -- you know I bet if you do that he wont even visit you during visiting hours at the state prison! think bout it you will be behing bars and he will move on .... keep your mind clear ....... rid those thoughts!
2006-07-30 22:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by this is me... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋