I always see couples around where the man is in good shape but the woman gained like 400 pounds. Its like as soon as the ring goes on, they turn into livestock. I know not all couples are like that but it seems like mostly women stop taking care of themselves. I think it would cure erectile dysfunction if they weren't getting so unattractive.
2006-07-30 22:42:57 · 16 answers · asked by matt c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try taking a closer look at the guy......the amazing change that happens after getting married to the guys attitude towards his wife and there relationships has led many beautiful woman to food for the lack of emotional and sexual comfort...trust me after some time no one really cares if you have erectile dysfunction.
Remember no one wants to be ugly and unattractive if they could help it!!!
2006-07-30 22:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by dew_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I have seen just the opposite. It is a case by case thing as men tend to deteriorate as well. By the way, you do realize that it is the woman who has to bear the children right? You try growing a human being inside your stomach a few times over the next decade and see how great you look after.
At least you can be assured that your blowup doll will always stay the same size :)
2006-07-30 22:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on - that's the main egocentric argument ever! at the start marriage provides direction to life if between 2 mature adults Secondly there isn't any distinction between females and adult males while it incorporates excitement and want for ability and freedom although that's ineffective to show that marriage has been around for hundreds of years and that's for a reason. some have self assurance in it and a few do no longer. of direction it is not continuously approximately giggling and dancing and leaping up and down with excitement even though it does instruct the two factors ingredient that for the duration of any different case ought to no longer be accomplished. If a guy's purpose in life is to sleep with as many females as attainable till he dies nicely solid for him - while he turns 50 and finally ends up on my own (of direction no longer lonely at nights through fact he nonetheless has the "face and physique" to entice ladies) then what???
2016-10-01 07:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by robinette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...you have the cure for erectile dysfunction. I think this could be helped by a subscription to Oxygen Magazine (women's fitness) showing up in the mail every month. I refuse to let my body go under, for my man or especially for me. People need to be a whole lot more disciplined...our bodies were made to be warriors, not slugs. I agree with you. I'll be back, gotta take a vigorous walk around the block. (I did see about 4 couples like this this weekend, the man was healthy, thin and fit and the lady was hoisting herself around trying to keep up. I said "never me. never." It's just not fair to yourself nor your loved one, man or wife.)
2006-07-31 00:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so much significance on attractiveness? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Things can go either way. Maybe men want to keep in shape more for all the cheating they do. Some men are so dominate in the relationship, he messes with her mind and he can control her better.
2006-07-30 23:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by broncos2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gained weight after we got married but there was a medical reason. Going off birth control made my hormones go out of wack and I gained 30 pounds in two months!!!!!!!!! I felt horrible for my husband. Luckly, when I asked, he got me a personal trainer. So maybe if the husbands would help out like that it wouldn't happen so often. Or maybe the husband should go and work out with her.
2006-07-30 23:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as do some men with the way they dress,women when single go dancing that's cardio ,and when you get married sometimes life styles change some men have kids with their wife's and they dint have much tome alone, some eat so much because they are depressed with their husbands ,because they feel safe that your not going to lave that's bs but i think everyone both parties should take care of there self as for a man who want to help your wife i would say go to the gym together its together time and she may need support
2006-07-30 22:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be defensive here being female, married and all, but i havent let that happen to me. and further more, did you ever stop to think that maybe, JUST MAYBE that the female had been pregnant before and that was pregnancy weight??? Maybe the hubby is spoiling her and all she wants to do is sit and eat, or maybe she is depressed and has an eating disorder.
Now, on to the men who do this just as well..........did you all ever stop to think that we really like looking at your receeding hairline or that extra ear hair and nose hair? Or that nasty looking beer belly that you have accumulated out drinking with your buddies?
didnt think so
2006-07-30 22:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't get pregnant and work as hard or get as stressed as women do! And the men should love them the same no matter what! You are right, I'm just saying you should go easy on them!
2006-07-30 22:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Cowgirl♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a substance that has been proven to put women off sex and gain weight.
It's called wedding cake.
2006-07-31 00:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋