i never realise until my friends told me. i'm actually a very 'horny' person i tend to look at almost any fcukable girl that walks past me even when i had a gf.. for instance when i'm in school attending class or when i'm at work.. whenever some random chick with a mini walks past i can't resist but to look at her until she gets out of sight i also smile at girls i meet whenever i go.. but the problem is girls dont look at me at all! i guess i'm not attractive in their eyes cause i'm kinda chunky and fat. i'm also TOO pale for a guy (i'm white).. and my hair looks nerdy. but i don't care.. i just dont want people coming to me telling me straight that i'm a pervert or whatnot. it's really pissing me off lately. even girls are saying i'm a jerk and all.. don't they like to be looked at?? how can i stop myself from doing it???? also, on most occasions after a glance at these beauties i experience a rock hard ***** that lasts at least a couple of minutes and when i see another hot girl....
2006-07-30 22:32:34 · 12 answers · asked by light_farts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its normal to check other people out, weather your single or not, but if your getting called a jerk for doing it, then i think you may be not just looking, but staring. Do you like to be stared at by someone you dont even know??? Im sure the answer would be no - its no only intimidating, but can be creepy. You just have to recognize when your doing it and yeah, pretty much stop. its not that hard, hey. You dont know that girls dont find you attractive - not all people show others that they fancy them by staring at them! And yeah, im thinking that if your getting a hardon, your staring and its falling well into the creepy department
2006-07-30 22:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by kjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are addicted to beautiful girls..and you just described yourself as being not as beautiful in girls eyes. You seem a bit shallow. Has to be the perfect girls in mini-skirts...I feel sorry for any regular girl that likes you. How fat? How pale? I'm practically glow in the dark and I love it..makes my freckles stand out more. How can hair be nerdy? Perhaps you should work on your self esteem a bit. Your confidence in yourself is extremely lacking...that could be what's making you less attractive to the girls.
2006-07-30 22:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do like people watching them( but not for their risk). You dont need to worry because its not a problem. Every buddy looks at chicks and have the same feelings as u have. only the thing is u'd expose and they dont. what i suggest u is get possitive thinking ,, select a time bound firstly say 5 min then 10 min and so on and try not to get involved with that. And try to develop till u find ur self that u are the same normal guy. Have faith and every thing goes well
2006-07-30 22:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are being called a pervert is because you are acting like one. No girl likes to be stared at.
How do you get rid of the bad habit? When you see a hot girl don't stare at her take a look if you must and turn away. If you stop acting like a pervert you might even get a girlfriend. I suspect the reason you don't have one is because you act like this not because of the way you look.
2006-07-30 22:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just a very typical teenage guy.
Oh, and about your appearence...did you know that the best looking guys in high school peak at that age and arn't all that when they are adults. You, will most likely end up the hunk.
And to answer how to break a bad habit. ...to get rid of any kind of behavior you need to replace it with another habit. What that would mean to you, I am not sure. Maybe you need to just make it through high school first.
2006-07-30 22:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that u r very insecure in yr self. Be more confident abt yr self and yr thoughts will not turn so much to sex. Get a hobby keep yr mind occupied. No harm in looking and admiring girls but not as sex object. If u r not happy and satisfied with yr own body how do u expect other people 2 c u?
2006-07-30 22:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for every teenage boy to experience that kind of feeling/desire. its instinct. but since we live in a civilized society, tempered by education, laws and religion, we need to act more appropriately. deep inside us we all have animal instincts but we need to subdue them, fight them, control them otherwise we are no better than the 4-legged creature roaming around. its needs commitment to change a habit. if you want to change then promise yourself to always avoid every occassion that triggers the habit. im not saying never look at girls but look at them with more respect and deeper appreciation like they are human beings. that they are more than sex symbols. that they represent all that is femininity: love, beauty, affection, kindness. you need to change your outlook in life. be more realistic. you are not getting any younger.
2006-07-30 22:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by gaucherive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think young guys like you is normal.
2006-07-30 22:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by seb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need psychological help because of perverts like you women are utilized as objects
2006-07-30 22:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
whenever badhabit comes remember GOD
2006-07-30 22:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋