If you hook up with a guy one time in your life does that mean your gay even tho youve done it with girls too?

Answer 1

Only if you played with his genitals, or desire to do something with them. But if your also into females that would make you bi-sexual. Nothing wrong with that. You just have a greater chance at sex. Nothing wrong with being straight,bi, or gay. Everyone is human and should be treated as such. If you are straight and you let a gay male give you head that does NOT make you gay... So many think it does. The only time you would be gay or bi is if two of the same sex play with eachothers genitals.

Answer 2

No, of course not. Sexual orientation is something that is fixed deep within your mind and you cannot change it. Deep down, you know who you are attracted to. The key is to be true to that.

And it is totally normal to be very straight but have some interest in sex with men. Our society sees sexuality as EITHER/OR with no flexibility. But this does not need to be the case.

It certainly does not mean that you're gay because you've been with a guy.

Answer 3

An old saying a friend of mine said once comes to mind. He said "you can build a thousand bridges, & suck one c0ck, & no one will remember you as a bridge builder". I tend to agree with him. There are certain lines that once you cross them, they are crossed. Once you kill one person, you are a murderer, & if you never kill someone again, that doesn't make you any less of a murderer. Likewise, once you have any romantic interaction with a man, you're gay. Even the people who say you aren't gay if you let a man give you oral sex are gay, & just dishonest with themselves. If you cross that line, there's no turning back, because you have to live with what you've done the rest of your life.

Answer 4

With who you do it with isn't the point. It's who you enjoy doing it with more that counts. :o)

Answer 5

no ur not gay just bi sexual; i.e. swing both ways

Answer 6

no it means you are/were bi-curious!