well, lets see, yeah im gay and i'm 17. i share a dorm with my straight friend. He is really really hot, i can't resists i need to touch him. theres a problem, hes a sensative sleeper so i can't touch him at night. But i was wondering if you guys could give me some adivse on how i can make him sleep for atleast 5 minutes with gurantee nothing bad will happen 2 him and that hell be asleep, that way i can atleast kiss him please help, i need him.
2006-07-30 21:52:31 · 16 answers · asked by lonleyzack91 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hi Zack,
You are in love with your friend -- you need to let that become loving friendship unless he is interested too. Now I will say, I've had straight friends, particularly when I was your age -- who wanted me to touch them and s**k them and stuff -- they did nothing in return, but were happy to let me get off by "worshiping" their bodies, which was (some of them told me years later) a HUGE ego booster for them.
I never approached them though. They asked me. Now, I was out, they knew I was gay -- so there was no question it was safe to ask me. Some I said yes to -- others I worried were in lust for the moment but would react badly later and I said no to. Others still I didn't think were ready and I said no to -- I lost two friends that way, you have to say no gently when you are gay and they ask you.
In the meanwhile, its probably ok to wrestle and fool around and that will make you horny and give you physical contact without your doing anything you shouldn't
As for kissing -- what's happened to you young ones? I've kissed my straight friends on the cheek all our lives, they kiss me on my cheeks too --- that's not sexual --- and lip kissing should happen only if both of you want it.
You shouldn't try to take advantage of him without his permission though. You don't want to be abusive.
Love and peace,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
PS To Paleki -- there is no treatment for being gay -- gay is what you are. His feelings are no different than what straight bois feel about girls, so keep your sanctimonious self-righteousness to yourself please.
2006-07-31 05:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Give Him A Break
He Is Straight Right?
Go Find SomeOne Who Is Not
Hmm
2006-07-30 21:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Singapore_Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you fear of loosing ur roommate and being humiliated by the person you love this much? my advice would be look for someone you like who doesnt have problem in a gay relationship. you will be hurt if you stick to this, by the way does he know that you r a gay?
go and touch him when he is very tired and going to sleep.....thats a deep sleep for sure....if u still want to take a chance
2006-07-30 21:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there ... i havent meet a gay person before but i advise you to go to some hospital ang get some treatmenet to come back to normal ... secondly about that friend, tell him the truth if you really consider him as a friend thirdly i advise u to keep away from him and resist that lust inside of you ...
take care ... i will pray for u ...
2006-07-30 22:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by paleki m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? That's like kissing rape. He obviously wouldn't be okay with you kissing him other wise you wouldn't have to do it when he is sleeping.
Get over him and switch rooms with someone. Get yourself a cute GAY boyfriend.
You are giving the homophobes who stereotype fuel.
2006-07-30 21:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is a mean and deceptive thing to do to anyone let alone a straight guy who is your roomate and has put his trust in you not take advantage him you should either move out or find someone else to obsess over there are gay men out there who would love to have a boy toy. please be kind do not take advantage of him in any way to do this would be like giveing the date rape drug.
2006-07-30 21:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sick. If he aint interested in you then so be it. Go find someone who will want you to touch them. Besides if you do this too your mate you could be accused of rape. & that would not make you such a good friend.
2006-07-30 21:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch off the light and leave him alone till the time he goes to sleep.
2006-07-30 22:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by somu98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you were straight and you were longin for some girl I would say; it's time to get some therapy. Leave him alone unless he wants you. That's just not right.
2006-07-30 21:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's actually called molesting ...doing things to a person against their will is sick and uncalled for...i hope you get cough and pay dearly for it...you are a sick twisted individual and need some serious help...you give gay guys a bad name ...too bad they haven't cough on to you yet
2006-07-30 21:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋