2006-07-30 21:47:41 · 40 answers · asked by potdoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should have joined them for a lovely 3some.
I bet she swallowed.
2006-07-30 21:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lothario 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Poor thing. This happened to my husband with his (needless to say) EX wife. Whilst he was working hard paying for her lazy *** to stay at home and do fcuk all, she was $hagging his best mate, who also lived across from their home. Hence the reason she is an ex now, even her lover didn't want her after, so now she is sad, old, lonely, miserable, bitter woman, and my hubby is a happy man (obviously coz he married me :))). What goes around comes around. Divorce the bum, find a new friend and the rest will take care of itself. My hubby was devastated at the time, but now he is happier than ever before. Good luck and STAY STRONG! He was not worth it, and your now ex-best friend blew it all away for a $hag.
2006-07-30 22:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is not really a friend if she could do that to you! Get her out of you life friends like that are not needed.
As for your husband - get him out of your house and you life.. he can not be trusted and no matter how many times he apologises you need to be aware that even if on the surface you forgive him that pain will never leave you and from that it is always hard to move on and get past it!
I am sorry to hear that and i understand that it must be really hard to get through this but give it time as time is a GREAT healer and things will work out.. just dont rush into anything to serious as you may not be able to trust people just yet. Hopefully no kids are involved if so then be strong for your kids and get on with things for the sake of the kids.. Stay strong...
2006-07-30 21:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off with out him if he cant hurt you like that he is just a low life and he is not worth your tears. and your so called best friend well wear do i start she is not worth the name " best friend" i think some one needs to tell her what a best friend dose, a BEST FRIEND would not even look at any of your ex's in that way let alone your husband. can i just say she wasn't really a friend if she can go as low as sleeping with you hubby. hold your head up high there the ones that need to be a shamed. you will get over it and you will move on enjoy your free dome for a while have some fun.
2006-07-30 21:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!!!!!!!! that is truly the one of the worst things a woman can go through...seems like something that one would only see in a movie huh? any way at a time like this it's really hard for anyone to tell what to do...find a way to come down and truly examine your situation talk to a family member and then try and see what will come of it all..
when you do fill up to it go to husband and slap him around that will make you fill better am sure and for so called best friend if i were you i would not associate with her again...
the biggest thing you can do for your-self is forgive them with time,find your worth as an individual... you only stop living when you die,fix yourself up and pick up the piece's...
in time you'll heal and you'l see a brighter day...BE STRONG
2006-07-30 22:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by pdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Devastation would be my first response. That would last about a sec. then I would of been pulling that bi*ches @ss out of the bed by her hair. If hubby even tried to stop me a swift kick to the balls would be in order.
Then it's HOUSE CLEANING time! All trash must go out to the street corner!
2006-07-31 01:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Building Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is equally your best friend‘s fault and your husband‘s - or
perhaps you may have made it easy to happen. Search your
own feelings and check if there was no encouragement on
your side for this to happen or if your devastation was not
caused by you being left out?
2006-08-03 06:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband has had a sexual fling too recently but in another country and not with my best friend. you will have a lot of pain to work through. are they planning on getting together? this happened to a friend of mine and she is still shaken about it although it happened many years ago. i don't know what to say. I hope you will be ok.
2006-07-30 22:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U poor, poor thing! think I wud have flipped! sounds to me u need to get a new best mate, and dont take that cheating toerag of a husband back either. Revenge cud be very sweet u know. but dont get urself into any trouble over the likes of them. wud have to give her a slap though and him
2006-07-30 21:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Irishbird3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they still alive???? if not pretend their dead, especially your so called best mate. Don't let them talk you round into believing it was nothing and it would never happen again. If you ever trust anyone to be your best mate again i would think very carefully about your choice of friends! Stand tall, dust yourself off and go and show them that you are so much better than them. Good luck, and keep your chin up.
2006-08-03 04:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by hvcrush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your husband have another female in the house if he knew you will be home soon? I think you have been watching too many movies on lifetime channel
2006-07-30 21:52:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋