In your opinion, what is the proper way to mourn the death of a loved one?

Answer 1

there is no right or wrong way to mourn you should let your feelings out that means anger rage sorrow joy all the emotions should be allowed to be felt this helps you heal honey if you lost a loved one you go ahead and cry and take as much time as you need to heal.

Answer 2

The way I look at it, mourning is process to INTERNALIZE the unfortunate event and get a grip on how to deal with it.
if you spent efforts in thinking how it should LOOK, you are simply prolonging the process, and thats going to get you greater grief and pain.

The proper way is:
First, acknowledge to yourself that your loved is gone.
Second, take a look at the personal damage that this has caused to you.
Third, UNDERSTAND fully that when someone passes away, nothing BAD happens to that person. He is just in another dimension and probably much relieved
Fourth, Wish peace and good journey to the soul of that person.

A good mourning acts as a trigger to a healthy grieving process that follows. Acceptance is the key.

Answer 3

Death should not be mourned .

Try to understand what is life and death.

Every one who is born is going to die and it as simple as one changing the clothes. Soul leaves the body [ the person dies ] and then takes another body and so on and on ............ till it is time to go back to God after the Holocast / natural calamities , All sould go back to god in form of star , and then wait at the home of supreme soul before they are again born in the world according to their karma and may enjoy happiness , for this world was once the heaven as said in the Holy books ......

Answer 4

i don't know if there's such thing as a "proper way" of mourning. but i think that acknowledging your feelings is a healthy way of mourning. you let your sadness out, cry if you feel like crying. sometimes, people are in denial of what happened, or become angry towards the dead relative or towards him/herself. those are just normal responses to loss of a loved one. eventually, they become fully aware of the loss, which leads to total acceptance.

if however, a person's grieving becomes prolonged, or a person is in excessive denial, or is experiencing prolonged depression, i guess that's not healty anymore. medical intervention should be seeked immediately.

Answer 5

Well i think that u should mourn a person in the way that u fell is best ... I never wore black clothes that is just dumb, it won't help ... well if u want to i would say that u should just wear something black not everything black

Answer 6

The proper ways to mourn the death of your loved one are
1)wearing black clothes in several days after the death
2)crying or weeping not so loudly:in several days after the death
3) staying at home never going out in several days after the death
4)unadorned ,no cutting hair and not go to beauty salon in several days after the death
5)no talking and laughing loudly in several days after the death
7)no smoking ,no gambling and no alcoholic drinking in several days after the death
8)no feasting ,dancing and merry celebrating in several days after the death.

Answer 7

In anyway that will help you to heal, without infringing on social or natural laws.

I find that over time you learn to manage your pain of loss.

Answer 8

Simply by letting the person go yet keep charish the person in your heart

Answer 9

Attend the funeral, be somber and cry (that came up when my mom died and I didn't cry...people acted like it was a crime....I just don't cry in front of people).

Answer 10

black clothes... and if you are a guy without shaving a while ( but i see you are not a guy)... so black clothes... and off course less parties and listening loud music or party music (just for a while)