I m turkish and an american military guy wants to marry me but we re from different cultures and religions?

Answer 1

Well if you love each other.......you learn about each others cultures and religions and then you choose which you like best if you do get married. Sharing is part of love.

Answer 2

love knows no boundaries. So that shudn't b yr concern. Yr concern should be :-

1) Is he genuine?
2) do u hv a communication problem?
3) how well do u both know each other and both yr families?

Go deep, if u want this relationship. Get to know each other real well before saying 'i do'. Afterall, u dont wanna end up with divorce 1 or 2 yrs later rite? put religion aside.

After all marriage love is solely between 2 people, so y let anything else stands in the way.

All religion teaches good and no religion says u must marry yr own kind. Besides arent we all huma and of the same kind?

Answer 3

"Turkish" and "American" are simply social constructs. Healthy relationships are build on shared values. Do you share core values with him? Things like honesty, work ethics, loyalty, spontaneity.

If you do, then cultural differences mean nothing, your relationship will be healthy and happy. If you do not, then it doesn't matter if you grew up next door in the same village, the marriage will not work.

Answer 4

If you two love each other you should marry because of love. Don't worry about culture and religion-love and time will work it out. :)

Answer 5

I believe it's more than love.love can come and go any time but engagements in habits it's difficult to reach. love only can stay for 1 year or less but understanding each other accepting the other behavior it's something permanent

Answer 6

Americans are very easy going men. You wont have too much of a problem.

Answer 7

So what? You can both try to make it work or you can decide it's too difficult and not try.

Answer 8

you are soooo dumb! it doesn't matter what land you are from! you can marry all the same!