My ex-boyfriend after leaving me a year ago to fix some self-issues had been trying to win me back. After ive made it clear to him im just want us to be friends.. he finally agreed and promise to be just a friend, although, I can still feel that he seems to just wait for the time that I would become a little more optimistic about giving the relationship another chance. We’re really good friends.
Yesterday while we were talking after church because we go to the same church, he opened up his plans to work in another country and he said “My only purpose is to earn more money and the most I’ll spend time there is five years then I’ll come back here.”
So I said, “It’s ok even if you don’t come back here, after you earn your citizenship, you could petition your family for migration and your little sister could better education.”
He was silent for a while.. Then he said, “I’m not working abroad anymore, I’ll just stay here.”
WHAT’S THE MEANING OF THAT?????????????
2006-07-30 21:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It means that he is NOT over your past relationship and he wants to get back with you desperately. The thing about worling abroad was just a story to get you to either: 1. Miss him and ask him to stay with you and be toghether again... or 2. You can't stand him leaving again, so you'd offer to go with him... OR 3. Say that no matter what, you'll wait for him with open arms, etc., etc... It's obvious what his intentions really are... It's hard to lose a good friend but sometimes it's best to let go for their own good and the sake of keeping the memories real and positive, at least... So, either get with him already, or be honest and break it off so he doesn't do something weirder or even stupid... Sorry, but some people just need that sort of take charge attitude to get on with their lives...
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2006-08-04 04:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he always expected you two to be an item again, as if he really doesnt believe that you would not go back to him as long as he was around, and when he told you about his plans and you made it much more clearer to him, that it was ok for him to go, that must have given him a jolt as to the relationship really being over. So he has impulsively decided to stay, so as to be near you. You must change your habits as far as he is concerned, try to avoid being anywhere that he attends or goes, try to avoid taking his calls, I know sometimes this is hard, but you must stop allowing him to have false hope, even by being his friend. Good Luck with this one, you are going to need it.
2006-07-31 04:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to stay there in hope you will get back together..You either need to be his girlfriend or stop being friends with him.. Even though you don't have the intention, your friendship is leading him on.. I really see no reason people should be friends with their ex's. One usually has feelings for the other, and it ends up causing problems like this.
2006-07-31 04:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to test ur mind that what is ur reply when he leaves u(indireclty he tells as going abroad).He just want to behave in a way which u feel very strange..Be alert with him and dont show more interests on his talk.He will slowly realise.U too tell something ...i have seen many pals like this
2006-07-31 04:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by MaxMetallica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, he was trying to bluff you and hoping to get a response like 'Oh my god! No, I love you! You can't leave!' or you crying and blabbering on about how you would miss him. He was also testing you, to see if you still love him. But you deflated his ego and his hopes of getting the reaction he wanted from you. Not only did you not show any remorse, fear, or heart break.. lmao but you also encouraged him to go, and to stay away! LoL Bet he felt like (censored) but at least he learned something.
2006-07-31 04:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by Inked Fantasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really likes u.but then hes after ur soul like mad.maybe he just doesnt want to go there becos of u.and then when u actually said that migrate there he must have thought that u r trying to get rid of him or sumthing like that which he doesnt want so thats y that dialouge u c.
2006-07-31 04:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by rashi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to tell him to stay where you are,he wants to be with you.Poor guy,give him another chance!
2006-07-31 04:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by coolkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you, thts simple, hes seriously gonna put his life on hold to see wht your gonna do or not do, thts the way it sounds to me, keep him honey, not many of them left
2006-07-31 04:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋