if so what will you do if you'll meet him/her again?
2006-07-30 20:54:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes i was in fact once a guy punched me in my stomach for no reason and i suffered a lot i told him that God will teach you a lesson and i never met him after that ,after ten yrs when i met him in he was suffering from an acute stomach problems and the coincidence was that someone who had the same name as mine had accidentally bumped into him and he got hurt in the stomach in big way. we should not seek revenge cause for every wrong we do it comes back to us and similarly every wrong move by some person makes that person suffer the same fate down the line.
2006-07-30 21:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Explorer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most bully's, become bully's, because, they were bullied themselves at home; by parent's or by a bigger brother/sister, it's a defence system to make sure they are not bullied by anyone else. People see a bully & don't bully them infear of losing the bully battle & becaming a victim themselves. When you see a bully feel SORRY for them, because somthing terrible!! is happening behind close door's. "UNLESS THEY ARE EVIL"
If you meet him/her again, ignore them!!!. They will properbly be ashamed & very apolojetic. Also if you let them know, that you are still affected!! "WELL".
If you want to bully them??? That would make you a BULLY & a COWARD!!! "Leave it, you cannot win. Just smile", it was along time ago. Just thing of all the STRENGTH you gained from the experience.
P.S I WAS BULLIED
P.S SEND ME AN E-MAIL, YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE,
2006-07-31 10:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by jonynomates 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied a countless number of times as a kid and I’ve run into those people occasionally. I feel sorry for them because they are all unsuccessful losers that did nothing with their lives and I have a successful career and graduated valedictorian. So I ended up getting the last laugh.
2006-07-30 20:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by A. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied as a kid, when I was a sophomore in h.s. there was a guy who pursued me relentlessly for a month. I even cut class to get away from this guy. Anyway, I have seen him since, and he's really pathetic. It looks like life has done a number on him. If I could time travel I'd go back and kick my own *** for being afraid of this loser.
2006-07-30 20:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by jesus_chrysler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a child I had terrible tics and twitches and before long I was called Twitch Head which changed to ***** Head.
It was horrible at the time. However if I met the bullies now I would feel nothing, anger is a wasted emotion
2006-07-30 20:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. laugh inside. not to sound uppity or anything..but bullies usually have issues and if left unresolved, they can become worse and affect that person in a negative way...the same can go for their victims.
I was bullied, but it toughened me. It also made me appreciate my life more as an adult. No one bullies me now and Im very much in control. So the bullies that Ive seen from junior high cant light a candle to me now...believe me i met both of them in my adult years. its kinda gives me a lil pleasure. maybe it all was jealousy?
2006-07-30 21:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by tiera29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a really large girl at a school I went to, I think she bullied me because of her own insecurities over her weight.
She was really horrible to me, and made 2 years of my life a misery, I used to cry myself to sleep at night. I was short, skinny and I got good grades, plenty of reasons to tease me! I also got on well with the teachers, so I was a "teacher's pet"...
Only then, after I changed schools, I had a growth spurt, got boobs, good figure etc...
I did meet her again, I went out on New Years eve and she was sat at the bar I went to. She looked at me funny, and I kind of felt sorry for her. She came over to me a while later with a funky looking pink cocktail, and said "I got you a drink. Sorry for everything." I forgave her. 4 years had passed, she had apologised, I saw no point in holding a grudge.
We haven't seen each other since, but It felt find of good, and I'm glad we met again. It feels like I colsed a bad chapter of a book with a good ending.
2006-07-30 22:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Krissyinthesun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and the bullies mainly still live in the area so I do see them. Many actually have been perfectly nice with me since leaving school. I guess most people grow up eventually. (Well the girls at least)
2006-07-31 09:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, I always had an elder cousin brother who I adored and tagged along with whereven he went, so all the guys were scared of me. Once this brother passed out of school (about two years before me), one person did ganf up with to others and beat me up, but later on in life I met him as a supplier to my company> we laughed and joked about oour childhood, and until I closed my business, he was one of my best suppliers and closest business associates. Still rings me up as a matter of fact and informs me about the status of his business, though I have moved about 1000 kmsaway from that city.
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2006-08-01 05:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by Starreply 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I wouldn't need to do anything at all now, I did something after 4 years of being bullied, I got angry, he ran away and he stayed away from me ever since then, even now he doesn't make eye contact if he sees me!
2006-07-31 06:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋