I'm 22 now and several men have proposed me.Althogh I know they are OK but I can't think and decide about this matter seriously.I can't fix my mind about it and I feel I've not decide to marry yet.Is there any thing I shoud do or I shoud just wait till I feel ready for getting married??
2006-07-30 20:52:42 · 15 answers · asked by melin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No matter what the situation. NEVER DO ANYTHING UNTIL YOU'RE READY BECAUSE U WILL REGRET IT. PLEASE DONT DO IT UNTIL YOU ARE READY!!!
~Rickeisha
2006-07-30 20:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 22 and although I am still married, at the time I was ready and I thought it was the right thing to do. It's a big decision to make and if you feel any doubt about it whatsoever I wouldn't do it. You are still young enough to live your life and see if that's really what it is you want to do with your life. If you are unsure I am guessing you may have doubts, maybe you're thinking about when you're 25 and you meet someone you may like better or your husband/wife might do the same. It's best to wait until you're absolutely sure because it's a big step to make and you'll be making that step in front of a lot of close friends and family who may be critical later on if it ends up in a divorce or a separation. Ultimately it's you who has to decide whether or not you're willing to take that step because it's you who will have to live with it.
2006-07-30 21:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Yakemchuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are from outside my area of the world, so I probably have a different opnion from someone within your own area. Marriage is a big commitment, not least because it often brings new lives in the world in the form of children. Should you wait until you feel ready? Yes, definitely! Get an education if possible and learn who you are before you give yourself to someone else for a lifetime.
2006-07-30 20:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by curiousfurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready. If you aren't then whoever you marry, no matter how wonderful they are on paper, you will end up resenting them. It sounds like you haven't decided on a suitor, and you can't just go "inni minni minni mo" about this. Just wait until you are ready. There's no rush. Good luck girl!
2006-07-30 21:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Monique Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait and don't let anyone or anybody decide for yourself. Coz it already happened to me...I got married because my family said so...but in the end I am the one who is now suffering...emotionally, physically and psychologically. wait till you feel ready for something before getting into it.
2006-07-30 21:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right, wain till you feel you are ready to get married. when time comes it makes you fast. and once when you get the 100% match of you u won't fell like waiting your heart says you are ready
2006-07-30 20:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart girl. Wait.
2006-07-30 20:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only suppose to get married once so be sure you ar e really really ready.
2006-07-30 20:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no question about it.......you wait until you are ready.
You might never want to get married.
2006-07-30 21:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah should wait till you are ready. get to know them even better, if they and see how.
2006-07-30 20:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. Divorce is expensive, breaking up is free.
2006-07-30 20:55:47 · answer #11 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋