then you found out that he actually went out with someone while they were still married what would you do?
2006-07-30 20:51:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he never cheated..... the person he was with did,,,,
find out more info, like did he know she was married, or were they married but seperated and seeeing other people?
its up to you, i wouldnt let it get to me that much as he never actually did the cheating, but i would explain to him that if he did i would kick him to the curb faster than i can eat chocolate! and thats fast!
2006-07-30 21:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Difficult one this........firstly, is that other person still married? If so, keep well out of this. There will be trouble ahead and you should distance yourself. Your BF has compromised you big time by giving you this information.
Tigers do not change their spots, back track with your Man. He sounds as though he could bring you a great deal of heartbreak.
Good Luck and you might not want to hear this but, there are many, many more fish in the sea.
2006-07-31 04:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by elusive_butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is this something before ya'll two were married? Because you can't really point fingers and call him a liar. Cuz many guys have tried stuff like that at one time in their life. He's probably grown up and doesn't intend on it happening with you. And I would believe him. But still keep my guard up around his computer habits and stuff like that. Cuz its cool to be talking with some folks and even a lil cyber, because that is harmless. But when it moves into meeting folks, thats a definite sign for you he can't stay faithful. But if he aint doing any of that stuff I say breathe and relax.
2006-07-31 04:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do nothing especially if my bf is a married man, the way is cheating on his wife that is the same way he would on me even if he say would never cheat. Actions speak louder than words my gal.
2006-07-31 04:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well technically HE didn't cheat, the person that he went out with cheated on her partner.... I don't see what the problem is here... has he actually cheated on you?
2006-07-31 03:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Saccharin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but he hasnt cheated on you has he?
He went out with someone while THEY were married so in essence it was the other person who was cheating.
I wouldnt do anything- if he said he wouldnt cheat- hold him to his word, if he does drop him like a hot brick.
2006-07-31 03:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going out with your spouse isn't cheating - being married with a girlfriend is.
2006-07-31 04:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neva trust a man they're all lying cheating pigs
2006-07-31 04:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by paulamathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and tell him that he is a liar and he obviously doesn't respect you enough to tell the truth...
No second chances, BYEEE!!! :D
2006-07-31 17:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either leave the past where it is, and hope history doesn't repeat itself, or chuck him.
2006-07-31 04:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋