2006-07-30 20:47:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Quickly, and then run! JK, be straightforward, she may already know from her brother and is just waiting to hear it from you. Be prepared for the worst and hope for the best.
2006-07-30 20:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by curiousfurious 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Wow, that's a tough one. Well, I guess it depends on whether or not you truly care for her brother in a love kind of way.
If you think you could love him then sit her down and explain to her that you feel something for her brother. Be very sensitive to her feelings, explain how you feel and listen to how she feels. Ease into it by saying something like, "You know I love you and I'd never forgive myself if I ever hurt you in any way but I've been having some strong feelings for ______ and I want you to know that he and I slept together." Make sure to emphasize that you didn't just do it for a booty-call and make sure to add in that if she doesn't approve, you'll stop seeing him. Usually that will warm up a girl to an idea and she'll approve.
If it was just a fling, then still sit her down and talk to her but instead of saying how you feel about her brother, start with saying something like, "I made a very big mistake and I truly hope you can forgive me once I tell you what it is." Be sure to add in not to blame her brother, that it was a mutual mistake and it won't ever happen again. And of course, be completely sensitive to her feelings and don't get angry if she gets offensive. Understand that she's of course going to be protective of her brother, that's only natural.
Good luck!!
2006-07-30 20:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by missamerino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he probably did tell them. Next time you have a date, ask him in person. Try to make it seem like you're not mad, you just want to know - even if you have to totally fake it. At least that way you might get the truth out of him, or at least you'll be able to tell if he's lying. If he says no, perhaps ask him "Then why is every guy you know where I work suddenly looking at me like I'm trash?" Also, if you're friends with Johnny, just go up to him and ask him what his problem is. Maybe not word it exactly like that; maybe just ask "Is something wrong? You seem a little put out with me ever since I started going out with Richie." Either that...or Johnny totally likes you, and your other coworkers totally know it, and he's upset that you're dating his brother.
2016-03-27 08:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell him. If she is grown up enough to mess around she is mature enough to be up for grabs to whomever she pleases.
Gosh that don't sound so good. hahaha
What happend happened between the two of you. If she becomes a girlfriend, then talk to him. Otherwise it is between you and her. And hope she doesn't tell her brother.
Maybe this will help you keep your zipper shut.
2006-07-30 20:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you want a relationship with the brother, or was it just a one time thing? If you want a relationship, you need to tell her that you're developing feelings for her brother and that he returns them. She'll be weirded out, but hopefully will come around in time. If it was just a one time thing, keep your slooty mouth shut.
2006-07-30 20:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say"Hey,what would you do if a girl messes up with him??" then u hear what she says.If it is positive then tell her the truth.But if she acts violent;y and negatively towards that question,guess you shld 4get 'bout her brotha.If she asks you "why do ask me that?Are you interested with Tom,my brother?",it also depends on her reaction...take care.
2006-07-30 20:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by ms_rar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need. My sister always knew when I was messing around with her friends. LOL Girls talk a lot yanno...
2006-07-30 20:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW DID YOU MANAGE THAT? TELL YOUR FRIEND, "I MESSED AROUND WITH YOUR BROTHER".
2006-07-30 20:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her awkwardly like this, "So, you know your brother? Of course you do, he's your brother. Ha ha. Oh brother...I mean...ooh geez. No pun intended. Ha ha. Anywho, well, I kinda maybe might've....touched your brother where he pees....Do you hate me?"
2006-07-30 20:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Assy McBonerson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You keep doing it behind your friend's back until the friend finds out you're pregnant.
2006-07-30 20:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by lemonserver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋