2006-07-30 20:44:53 · 17 answers · asked by tangind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
**** no. That guy is a ******* loser and doesn't deserve to have a child. What a pathetic excuse for a man. My sister got pregnant unexpectantly, and the guy didn't bail. He's there for the kid, and he helps her out financially. He's 21.
2006-07-30 20:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you became pregnant and he had no desire for a child. Then he made his choice.
You made your choice by going to term, birthing and keeping this child. He didn't.
By rights. He doesn't have to see this child if he has no desire for this child.
Not fair to this child either to be forced to see someone who don't care for him.
You two slept with eachother. Should of discussed "what if I got pregnant" issue. If he didn't want no kids and you slept with him any knowing kids can come of it, then that is your problem. Not his realisticly.
If I were you. Raise this child on your own. Eventually if you find someone who loves and cares for you and this child, great. Until then, don't force something that isn't going to be there.
As far as this guy goes. If he doesn't want anything to do with this child. Either he needs to sign his rights away or pay child support. Whether he see's him or not since after all, he also has part in making this child. He at least has the choice of paying up or backing all the way out being an a** who needs to be cut if not going to do the right thing.
2006-07-30 21:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definatly not wrong for keeping your son. If his dad doesn't make the choice to see the kid, then it might be better for him. The kid doens't need that kind of rejection.
My daughter was in a similar situation. She told her daughter that her birth daddy doesn't know how to be a daddy. And she is fine with that.
Love your son, and make sure he has some good male figures around him to loook up to.
Your X bf is a jerk. YOu can't change him, but you can change how you react to him.
I wish you the best
2006-07-30 20:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness he is your ex !!! You don't mention as to whether the child is his or not. Why would you ever feel that you were wrong to keep your beloved son, DO NOT let this person make you feel this way, if I were you I would give him a very wide berth, it's his loss not yours. Good luck.
2006-07-30 20:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! It would not have been better for you to kill your own child. Would you really have wanted your son to end up like this?
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
Your ex-boyfriend is not worth anymore of your grief or time. Make sure your son has other stable male figures in his life, like a grandfather, uncle, or pastor.
2006-07-31 04:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! he is a dumb *** for wanting to kill his child. Anyway why would you want a man like that to see your son? Stay away from him, obviously he didn't want the kid to be born. So what makes you think he will want to raise the child? Get child support and be through with his butt.
2006-07-30 20:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats against gods will to have an abortion,not to mention kids are the most beautiful things to have in life!!!
2006-07-30 20:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by kidd_rock_house 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! you are NOT wrong. If the DUMBASS doesn't want to see your/his son, that's his choice, more room for you to give love to your son!
EX? Leave it be!
2006-07-30 20:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you're a poor judge of character.if you live in the US,he has to pay child support,whether he will see his son or not.he's not much of a man,consider yourself lucky he's gone.
2006-07-30 20:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? let them refuse. If you feel that you are doing a right thing then don't care about them
2006-07-30 20:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by blessedchild_152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋